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Engagement present

  • 26-07-2019 12:36pm
    Registered Users Posts: 2,466 ✭✭✭

    Hi All

    Sorry for all of the threads but there is a lot happening all in a few weeks.

    One of my good friends is engaged and we will have an engagement party to attend at her house.

    What is an appropriate gift?

    I was thinking maybe a framed photo (i take alot of landscape shots professionaly and maybe something else?))

    Any ideas ?



  • Registered Users Posts: 22,252 ✭✭✭✭endacl

    Is this a thing now?

  • Registered Users Posts: 2,466 ✭✭✭skinny90

    well id feel bad not getting a small gift, am i wrong to think that?

  • Registered Users Posts: 2,466 ✭✭✭skinny90

    Any one?

  • Registered Users Posts: 22,252 ✭✭✭✭endacl

    Apparently not a thing.

  • Registered Users Posts: 28,462 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06

    Framed photo is a very nice idea, definitely keep that up the sleeve for wedding if you don't go with that.

    I would not be so imaginative and would probably bring the default option of something sparkling for the party.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)

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  • Registered Users Posts: 4,514 ✭✭✭bee06

    Restaurant voucher or nice bottle of champagne.

  • Registered Users Posts: 4,852 ✭✭✭ncmc

    I wouldn't normally get someone an engagement gift, but if they were having a party in their house, then I would get a gift. I think the restaurant voucher idea is a nice one. But if you are a photographer by trade, then a framed picture would be lovely. Is there anywhere you can think of that is special to the couple? Maybe you could give them a framed picture of a place that means something to them, where they first met for example!

  • Registered Users Posts: 28,462 ✭✭✭✭odyssey06

    Be careful with the expiry date on the restaurant voucher, make sure it's got at least a year on it. A just eat voucher might work also.

    "To follow knowledge like a sinking star..." (Tennyson's Ulysses)

  • Registered Users Posts: 220 ✭✭Rx713B

    Restaurant voucher

  • Registered Users Posts: 13,493 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard

    I don't agree with engagement presents but I would never show up to a party in someone's house with my arms swinging. Bottle of prosecco/cava/champagne - whatever their bubble of choice is - is fine.

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  • Registered Users Posts: 118 ✭✭ksceniaonegina

    Vouchers for couples massage