Why is my girlfriend always accusing me of looking at other women

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I have 2 questions:


1) As per the title, my girlfriend is constantly accusing me of looking at other women when I'm not. I actually never consciously look at another woman when I am with my girlfriend.

However when we are walking and talking if I look in any direction or ahead and there is a woman there I'm accused of ogling her and look at her when all I'm doing is people watching and it would look the same amount of time if a man, dog, window display, poster caught my eye.

Why would she be constantly accusing me of something I'm not doing?


2) My girlfriend also calls me mean and stingy. I am frugal when it comes to my household bills in the fact I try to save money on day to day bills so I can spend it on the nicer things in life.

Whenever we go for dinner I always pay and tip (she says the tip is me showing off my money). She does occasionally buy me a drink or a coffee or lunch but I still pay for these at least 75% of the time.

I paid for an entire weekend in an expensive Scandinavian capital which was circa 1.5K (she paid for her flight - €100), paid more than half for a family holiday in May for me, her and her 2 kids (after only going out 6 months) and have just paid over half for the summer holiday coming up for me, her and her 2 kids. yet she still says I'm the meanest and stingiest person she has ever met.

Why would she say that about me?


Sorry for combining 2 questions into one but being accused of both theses things is really upsetting me.

zapper55

She says these things because she sounds like a unhappy person that you shouldn't be in a relationship with. Have you posted about her numerous times before?

She sounds incredibly ungrateful.

I've had a boyfriend that kept looking at other women and if that was your only problem I'd give you advice but your whole relationship sounds very toxic.

wiggle16

You've posted about this woman before, twice this year. She broke up with you twice and sounds unstable, you went back to her both times. You've been told this all before.

She's a wasp. That's all. I honestly don't know what else to tell you or what else you are going to hear that you haven't before.

As you are not taking advice on board I am locking this thread.