needing some advice on friend

madnessnmayhem

I'm not sure what to do here, my friend is gay in his 30s while he enjoys meeting guys from Grinder and he travels to UK a lot too, I've notice he was handing business cards to young(ish) chaps say late teens, I did ask him what's that about he said he pretends he's a photographer and ask lads to e-mail him and do a photo shoot he then tells me he **** over the pics later as he likes looking at young toned guys. he said he's a very sexual person and enjoys sex.


I did warn him of the dangers but I don't think he's listening to me on it, I'm thinking of going to the guards anonymous to have them visit him maybe to shock him.

I do think he's going to get himself in a lot of trouble if he's not careful.

Thanks for reading

antix80

I'd ditch him as a friend. Sounds sleazy.
If young lads fall for it that's their problem. Maybe one of them will cop what's happening and knock some sense into your friend.

368100

If they're late teens then they're presumably adults I.e. past the legal age of consent at 17......so what are the guards going to do?

It is a bit sleazy pretending to be a photographer but not illegal, so if you have that much of an issue then you should tell him and then end the friendship, at least he'll know what actions he took led to it.

Locker10a

What a horrible sleaze, and frankly I find what he’s doing slightly sinister. You’d swear porn was hard to come by. Seriously the guy has issues. I doubt the guards would/could do anything, he’s essentially collecting photos, many people do this I’m sure but probably through dating /chat apps or just plain old porn.
You say you’ve spoken to him, there’s not much more you can do really, he’s obviously not going to heed you, or if he does he’s probably just going to stop admitting to you what he does. He obviously gets a thrill out of it.

Danzy

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