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Another need advice thread

  • 24-06-2019 03:37PM
    #1
    Grouptherapy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 128 ✭✭


    Set up new account just to look for advice.
    I'll try and keep it brief.

    My situation:
    Married 10+ years
    2 Children under 11.

    I was never really happy, felt marriage had died a long time ago, and recently just couldn't take any more and moved out. Children distraught as you can imagine.

    I'm searching away on line but it's a bit overwhelming - can someone please direct me where to go for advice on where to go from here?
    In particular any recommended family law solicitors around west Dublin?


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  • #2
    Another day
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 146 ✭✭Another day


    Citizens advice and then Mediation. Have you made an arrangement for paying maintenance? Always pay via standing order or into their bank account from yours. Have you proposed an access arrangement? Those are the first 2 things you need to do, along with ensuring mortgage is paid if you have one.


  • #3
    Grouptherapy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 128 ✭✭Grouptherapy


    Thanks for your reply.

    I paid into an account monthly for her anyway and will continue with this. I transfer it direct to account so there's a record.
    Ok, I'll contact Citizens' Advice.
    It's early days and we're not really in contact, and nothing has been discussed never mind formalised about maintenance or seeing children.


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