Friend.

decky1

do any of you have a good friend who only uses you when it suits them? I have one i worked with for years , we went out at weekends for loads of beer etc, but in the last year or so he's got involved in football and is going around licking their arse's tring to be mr big,rang him last christmas to arrange a night out but he never got back in touch, but i know as soon as he needs something he'll knock my door. I just find it a bit ignorant really.:mad:

Frozen Veg

decky1 wrote: »

do any of you have a good friend who only uses you when it suits them? I have one i worked with for years , we went out at weekends for loads of beer etc, but in the last year or so he's got involved in football and is going around licking their arse's tring to be mr big,rang him last christmas to arrange a night out but he never got back in touch, but i know as soon as he needs something he'll knock my door. I just find it a bit ignorant really.:mad:

Football Friend

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

decky1 wrote: »

do any of you have a good friend who only uses you when it suits them? I have one i worked with for years , we went out at weekends for loads of beer etc, but in the last year or so he's got involved in football and is going around licking their arse's tring to be mr big,rang him last christmas to arrange a night out but he never got back in touch, but i know as soon as he needs something he'll knock my door. I just find it a bit ignorant really.:mad:

That's most of them to be honest. I tend to stop inviting them to things and wait until the ask why, then tell them that I hadn't heard from them in so long, I thought I was annoying them.

Works every time.

Roger Hassenforder

Frozen Veg wrote: »

Football Friend

If there's anything worse than a fùck buddy.
Its a football friend

corner of hells

decky1 wrote: »

do any of you have a good friend who only uses you when it suits them? I have one i worked with for years , we went out at weekends for loads of beer etc, but in the last year or so he's got involved in football and is going around licking their arse's tring to be mr big,rang him last christmas to arrange a night out but he never got back in touch, but i know as soon as he needs something he'll knock my door. I just find it a bit ignorant really.:mad:

I'm wondering are you Andrew Ridgeley, you know you mention last Christmas and if you bear in mind George Michael passed away on Christmas Day and arse licking which we know George was in to .

jcorr

decky1 wrote: »

do any of you have a good friend who only uses you when it suits them? I have one i worked with for years , we went out at weekends for loads of beer etc, but in the last year or so he's got involved in football and is going around licking their arse's tring to be mr big,rang him last christmas to arrange a night out but he never got back in touch, but i know as soon as he needs something he'll knock my door. I just find it a bit ignorant really.:mad:

No I wouldn't have the patience for that. I had a woman friend once upon a time though and she was tough work. I mean she nearly killed me. I'm trying to think if I was friend zoned or whipped or something. Lol.

bigar

decky1 wrote: »

do any of you have a good friend who only uses you when it suits them? I have one i worked with for years , we went out at weekends for loads of beer etc, but in the last year or so he's got involved in football and is going around licking their arse's tring to be mr big,rang him last christmas to arrange a night out but he never got back in touch, but i know as soon as he needs something he'll knock my door. I just find it a bit ignorant really.:mad:

What you describe is not a friend. A friend is like family. Someone you can trust unconditionally on every occasion.

Bobblehats

bigar wrote: »

What you describe is not a friend. A friend is like family. Someone you can trust unconditionally on every occasion.

A friend is a junkie. Who matter how many crispy bills you leave lying around won’t even take one to smoke his next fix

IAMAMORON

Op. Just as regards your friend licking footballers' arses, had you noticed this type of behaviour before ?

Who started calling him " mr big " first. Was it you, or the footballers' whose arses he was licking.

I am asking for a friend btw.

The pink killer

Thats what a friend is just someone you use to pass time with really.

Tammy!

I'd say you both just drifted apart op which is common especially if you are not working together anymore. He might not want to go out drinking because he's focussed on his football. He probably should have replied to you though when you tried to arrange to meet up.

Odyssey 2005

You should just kick him to touch.

Deebles McBeebles

Boombox above head outside his bedroom window and sing this to him;

If you're lost, you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall, I will catch you, I will be waiting
Time after time

riffmongous

There's a big difference between friends and people who are really just drinking buddies, but in Ireland especially due to our drink and sports culture, the latter are often seen as the former

decky1

corner of hells wrote: »

I'm wondering are you Andrew Ridgeley, you know you mention last Christmas and if you bear in mind George Michael passed away on Christmas Day and arse licking which we know George was in to .

ah stop,:o

OldMrBrennan83

I am that friend.

decky1

thanks for all your comments, some of you hitting the nail on the head about friendship, it is what it is.maybe over thinking it,

Dtp1979

Odyssey 2005 wrote: »

You should just kick him to touch.

Get your coat

El Tarangu

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Boombox above head outside his bedroom window and sing this to him;

If you're lost, you can look and you will find me
Time after time
If you fall, I will catch you, I will be waiting
Time after time

'in your eyes', Peter Gabriel