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Flirting 101

  • 08-06-2019 12:44am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi all,

    I fancy a colleague at work and we seem to get on quite well when we chat..
    I’m drawn to him and felt we connected.
    In the last week, I’ve been busying myself around the department and avoiding him due to how strongly I feel.
    I’m very awkward when it comes to the opposite sex due to a lack of experience and have had a couple of missed opportunities when it comes to potential relationships.

    I really like him and I can’t stop thinking about him.
    Need advice - should I ask him to coffee? Etc

    Thanks, S.


Comments

  • #2
    leggo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    Depends on the job really. Is it the kind of place where it’s normal for colleagues to date? Is is a big team where it wouldn’t be awkward and affect everyone’s day if he said no or it went sour, like could you potentially avoid him for a while if need be?

    If it’s normal and you could avoid him or avoid awkwardness in general, then yeah go for it. If not, maybe just have a flirt for now and see if anything develops naturally.


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