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Heart is broken

  • 27-05-2019 12:31pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    My relationship seems to be over and my heart is broken. The relationship was extreme and has ended very badly and is getting worse. Can't get access to my kids at this stage, financially heading for serious trouble - the absolute worst is now going on.
    Been to my GP, told him the truth about the thoughts I've had in terms of utter darkness etc. I know I'm not the first to be like this - but do you ever get over a broken heart?


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  • #2
    Red Lightning
    Closed Accounts Posts: 378 ✭✭Red Lightning


    AnonyPost wrote:
    My relationship seems to be over and my heart is broken. The relationship was extreme and has ended very badly and is getting worse. Can't get access to my kids at this stage, financially heading for serious trouble - the absolute worst is now going on. Been to my GP, told him the truth about the thoughts I've had in terms of utter darkness etc. I know I'm not the first to be like this - but do you ever get over a broken heart?

    Time DOES heal. May not look or feel like it ATM but this is circumstantial and you will 100% come out the other side. Don't be too hard on yourself and keep moving forward.


  • #3
    wiggle16
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 3,022 Mod ✭✭✭✭wiggle16


    Hi OP

    I'm sorry to hear you're feeling like this. It is great that you went to your GP and I don't mean that by way of a platitude. It is hard to sit in front of someone like that and try to tell them how you really feel on the inside. That is a hard step to take, but it was definitely the right one. I really hope you found it helpful at least.

    You need to give yourself time. In every respect. Give yourself the time to do things, and do one thing at a time. This will pass. You need to allow it time to do so.

    There is a list of support organisations for people experiencing personal difficulties here: https://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=89677352&postcount=2 - I'd strongly encourage you read it.

    As the poster above has said, it will get better. I know you don't believe it, but it will. Please take care of yourself.


  • #4
    Ursus Horribilis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,168 ✭✭✭Ursus Horribilis


    Why was your relationship "extreme"? It's a very odd way to describe a relationship, especially one that produced children. Why can't you gain access to your children? I get the impression that a broken heart is just the beginning of what's going on here.


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