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  • 25-02-2019 10:42pm
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    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    After a very tough few years at work, I am at burnout. The last year has been incredibly difficult at work, due to a variety of factors.

    I need time off, both mentally and physically.

    I am worried about taking time off for a few reasons

    1. My other half and I are in the process of buying a house, I am worried that if I take time off sick during these few weeks that I will have to explain it to the bank when we wish to draw down the mortgage, in terms of my payslip (I don't get paid sick leave)
    2 We are also worried that if I am out sick during these few weeks for either stress or exhaustion that it could effect my ability to get mortgage protection insurance?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 6,005 ✭✭✭sReq | uTeK


    Houses will be a plenty as will the opportunity to get back a steady flow of unbroken pay cheques,your mental health and well being if a breakdown occurs, well that's a whole different ball game.

    Mind yourself, the rest will work itself out.


  • Registered Users Posts: 12,564 ✭✭✭✭whiskeyman


    Have you tried your best to address the issues causing the burnout?
    Are you getting time to yourself to relax / recharge?
    Are you eating well?
    Can you talk to your boss / partner how to tackle these issues?
    Do you have any breaks planned?

    Taking a break might seem like a great idea, but what happens after?

    I think your first point of call should be your GP to be honest.
    Best of luck.


  • Registered Users Posts: 5,083 ✭✭✭Rubberchikken


    you need to speak to your gp and if you can, your boss.
    no job is worth getting stressed over.
    i realise you're in the middle of house purchase/mortgage etc but if you get sick to the point where you would need to be hospitalized, what will happen then?


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