Cheaters

linpoo

If a man cheats within the first year of marriage, is the marriage doomed?

khaldrogo

If a man/woman cheats at any stage it is doomed.

joeguevara

Is this a real life situation or a hypothetical? If it’s a real life scenario then you have to look at why someone felt the need to cheat. Was it because they are inherently disloyal or was there an underlying reason. If so can that be worked on?

My own opinion is that it is very difficult to get past infidelity as no matter how bad it is to bring yourself to be with someone else is a step that can rarely be reconciled. Bit more information is needed. But on the face of it yes it’s doomed.

woodchuck

Mod note:

Hi OP. Can you please clarify if this is a personal issue for you? This is an advice forum, so if your question is just for general discussion, I'm afraid we cannot allow it to remain open.

linpoo

woodchuck wrote: »

Mod note:

Hi OP. Can you please clarify if this is a personal issue for you? This is an advice forum, so if your question is just for general discussion, I'm afraid we cannot allow it to remain open.

Oh sorry no its not a personal issue for me so you can go ahead and close it.

woodchuck

Thanks for clarifying linpoo. I'll lock the thread now.