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What age do you expect to live to?

  • 11-11-2018 11:43pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭


    For some reason Ive just been thinking about mortality a lot. Im only 22 but a recent health scare really woke me up to the reality that Im not immortal,and that body reacts the exact same way to bad things like alcohol and fast food as everyone else, Ill literally die some day and the decisions I make for my healthtoday could have a big impact on how healthy I am in another 50 years.
    Im a bit of a hypochondriac, but Ive 3 live grandparents all over 76(one of whom is 81 and still working 9-5) with no health issues and one who died of cancer at 76, pretty good overall, no history of illness in either of my parents in early fifities or in any of their brothers and sisters. I was thinking of getting a 23andme type thing done to see what my chances of getting different diseases are but mabye its best not to know..

    Ive started making some adjustments to my life, going to exercise every day from now on, meditate to relieve my anxiety, drink only every second week and drink less when I do, start drinking green tea instead of coffee, stevia instead of sugar, snack on nuts instead of crackers, sleep 8 hours every night and not bring my laptop or phone into my bedroom at night,Im going to start donating blood because I think its a nice thing to do and also its shown to prolong life quite considerably in men. I also started wearing a helmet while cycling which I should have always been doing but anyway.

    Are you healthy? How long do you hope to live? Barring unfortunate unpredicatble events like car accidents etc

    How long do you hope to live? 91 votes

    60's or lower
    0% 0 votes
    70's
    28% 26 votes
    80's
    30% 28 votes
    90's +
    40% 37 votes


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,490 ✭✭✭✭josip


    82
    (I'm currently mid 40s and munching my way through a packet of Tesco Choc digestives)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,245 ✭✭✭myshirt


    Whatever age it is my dying wish is that the last cheque I write bounces.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,106 ✭✭✭Roger Mellie Man on the Telly


    Considering my lifestyle - mid forties. I'm 44 at present so not long to go I reckon. Not too bothered; life's overrated.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Considering my lifestyle - mid forties. I'm 44 at present so not long to go I reckon. Not too bothered; life's overrated.

    Why whats wrong with your lifestyle? I dont think even the worst lifestyle will kill somebody in their fourties!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,365 ✭✭✭✭McMurphy


    myshirt wrote: »
    Whatever age it is my dying wish is that the last cheque I write bounces.

    Why? You'll be dead anyway.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 19 newnamexx


    Jesus, 22.
    I'm 58 going on 59.
    Now I worry a bit. Too much drink even though I only started aged 40.

    On the other hand it's never too early to look after yourself.

    But honestly, give yourself some slack. At 22 you have a lot of slack.

    Aged 22, I didn't smoke, drink, or have sex . What a mistake that was.

    I wasted my life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,245 ✭✭✭myshirt


    Why? You'll be dead anyway.

    It'll give me comfort in my final moments knowing the cheque is going to bounce. For once I want to be one of those bad b#stards who say the cheque is in the post, knowing it's not.

    Ah look, to be honest if bit did bounce I'd hope the chap wasn't really depending on the cheque clearing.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,253 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    At 22 you're likely well ahead of the game as far as new therapies for illnesses go. When you my age*old man voice* in just about thirty years time can you imagine the therapies available to you?

    Kinda good that you're thinking of this now at your age. Most don't. Though don't get obsessive. IMHO? Never smoke, drink frugally, preferably wine(Red. Is there any other kind?) with meals, keep a strong social circle, have relationships, kids if that's your thing, stay active, but don't overdue it in the gym and keep mentally active and current. That IMHO is one of the largest factors.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,893 ✭✭✭Canis Lupus


    wakka12 wrote: »
    For some reason Ive just been thinking about mortality a lot. Im only 22 but a recent health scare really woke me up to the reality that Im not immortal,and that body reacts the exact same way to bad things like alcohol and fast food as everyone else, Ill literally die some day and the decisions I make for my healthtoday could have a big impact on how healthy I am in another 50 years.
    Im a bit of a hypochondriac, but Ive 3 live grandparents all over 76(one of whom is 81 and still working 9-5) with no health issues and one who died of cancer at 76, pretty good overall, no history of illness in either of my parents in early fifities or in any of their brothers and sisters. I was thinking of getting a 23andme type thing done to see what my chances of getting different diseases are but mabye its best not to know..

    Ive started making some adjustments to my life, going to exercise every day from now on, meditate to relieve my anxiety, drink only every second week and drink less when I do, start drinking green tea instead of coffee, stevia instead of sugar, snack on nuts instead of crackers, sleep 8 hours every night and not bring my laptop or phone into my bedroom at night,Im going to start donating blood because I think its a nice thing to do and also its shown to prolong life quite considerably in men

    Are you healthy? How long do you hope to live? Barring unfortunate unpredicatble events like car accidents etc

    Based on a few of your recent posts I think you need to stop thinking about health so much or maybe need to have a chat with a therapist because you're worried about stuff you shouldn't be worried about at 22.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,070 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn


    80 ish would be the max for me. The op might see 90-100.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 206 ✭✭JustAYoungLad


    Honestly? 25. Long term depression. Cant ignore it for too long now


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Wibbs wrote: »
    At 22 you're likely well ahead of the game as far as new therapies for illnesses go. When you my age*old man voice* in just about thirty years time can you imagine the therapies available to you?

    Kinda good that you're thinking of this now at your age. Most don't. Though don't get obsessive. IMHO? Never smoke, drink frugally, preferably wine(Red. Is there any other kind?) with meals, keep a strong social circle, have relationships, kids if that's your thing, stay active, but don't overdue it in the gym and keep mentally active and current. That IMHO is one of the largest factors.

    I like to think that! But then when you look back 30 years from now to 1988..has it changed that much? Probably not as much as somebody would have thought it would change


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,786 ✭✭✭KathleenGrant


    Mid 50's don't expect to see 60


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,445 ✭✭✭✭gammygils


    Living to a ripe old age isn't all it's cracked up to be. Who wants to be stuck in a nursing home having their ass wiped and being a burden?
    Losing their mind, hearing,sight, painful joints, etc. Not me! Hope to be gone by 75 max.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 327 ✭✭Raheem Euro


    Uh oh!
    I don't know about you
    But I'm feeling 22
    Everything will be alright
    If you keep me next to you
    You don't know about me
    But I'll bet you want to
    Everything will be alright
    If we just keep dancing like we're
    22, ooh-ooh
    22, ooh-ooh


    Taylor Swift.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,119 ✭✭✭Rubberchikken


    At 22 i paid no thought to death. A couple of decades later, still giving it no thought.
    Dont fret what you cant control is my motto.

    Op you can meditate change ur diet slerp all hours etc but if youre worrying then life is being wasted.

    If u find its all you're doing then chat to someone and start living.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,599 ✭✭✭newmember2


    Honestly? 25. Long term depression. Cant ignore it for too long now

    I hope you look for/get support.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    Flowing Data have a simulator that details the things most likely to lead to a person’s death in any given simulated lifespan.

    If I remember correctly, they correlated the causes of death across all ages in the USA to build a statistical model. Enter in your age, ethnicity and gender, and watch your life unfold in front of you. What makes it interesting (to me at least) is the shift in varying causes of death for the different age demographics depending on age.


    Capture_3553411b.jpg

    https://flowingdata.com/projects/2016/death-simulation/death-sim.html


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,122 ✭✭✭BeerWolf


    Be lucky to reach 60, I don't exactly have the healthiest lifestyle. :pac:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,641 ✭✭✭Teyla Emmagan


    mike_ie wrote:
    Flowing Data have a simulator that details the things most likely to lead to a person’s death in any given simulated lifespan.

    That's fabulous, I must have a good nose at it.

    There's an old lady up in Donegal that I am the genetic imprint of, and she's 97 and as sharp as a tack. So I could have a good 50 years left in me yet.

    Holy f""K.


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  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,253 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    wakka12 wrote: »
    I like to think that! But then when you look back 30 years from now to 1988..has it changed that much? Probably not as much as somebody would have thought it would change
    Things have changed massively since 1988. Never mind the tech you're using now to talk about this, but medical science has made big leaps in that time period. Heart conditions and cancers that would have been curtains back then are now treatable, even curable.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    Honestly? 25. Long term depression. Cant ignore it for too long now

    And ignoring it is what you shouldn't do. Go look for some help, today.

    Depression is something that can be treated.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    I'd a dream that I was killed in the war in Northern Ireland.

    Can't remember what age I was in the dream but if a war breaks out in Northern Ireland, I'll know that I haven't much time left.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 110 ✭✭Corb_lund


    Longevity was never a strong point in my family and my lifestyle isn't doing a lot to change that.

    Prob 50-60s


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,144 ✭✭✭Trigger Happy


    Hard to imagine an earth without me in it.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,480 ✭✭✭bloodless_coup


    Unless you have a terminal disease, you're not going to die at 50/60 from a currently unhealthy lifestyle.

    Also I always find it strange when people are talking about the future / old age and someone says 'I won't be alive at 70' or 'I don't plan on living that long'. Are they saying why are going to commit suicide when they reach a certain age?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,218 ✭✭✭✭Tom Mann Centuria


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Things have changed massively since 1988. Never mind the tech you're using now to talk about this, but medical science has made big leaps in that time period. Heart conditions and cancers that would have been curtains back then are now treatable, even curable.

    On the flip side, antibiotics that would have worked in 1988 now may not. The number of people, who've never even been in hospital before, coming in with bugs resistant to virtually every antibiotic, is going through the roof. Genuinely quite scary.

    Oh well, give me an easy life and a peaceful death.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,809 ✭✭✭Hector Savage


    I like to think that 9 out of 10 people have the death thing happen to them .... but me ... Jah Bless ... Just keep going !!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    On the flip side, antibiotics that would have worked in 1988 now may not. The number of people, who've never even been in hospital before, coming in with bugs resistant to virtually every antibiotic, is going through the roof. Genuinely quite scary.

    ^^^^^^^^^^

    This is what will probably save the planet.

    A bug that we can't fight will wipe out a large percentage of the population. It's only a matter of time.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,950 ✭✭✭ChikiChiki


    Genetics in the family are fairly good so Im expecting 80 at a minimum. However have had a lot of stressful life events and genuinely concerned they may have knocked a few years off.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,070 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn


    BattleCorp wrote: »
    ^^^^^^^^^^

    This is what will probably save the planet.

    A bug that we can't fight will wipe out a large percentage of the population. It's only a matter of time.

    You’re a delight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,790 ✭✭✭✭BattleCorp


    You’re a delight.

    Doesn't mean that I'm wrong though.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 812 ✭✭✭Cleopatra_


    Well in 1988 when I was born my life expectancy was 14. Here I am at 30. My life expectancy is now late 30s. I have Cystic Fibrosis. No idea how long I'll really get, doctors can't even give me a strong indication I'll reach 40 but I think it's possible for me to reach mid forties anyway, maybe even 50s.

    My lungs are the age of a 59 year old so maybe based on that I could live another 20 odd years? Depends on how fast my lungs deteriorate really.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,214 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    My parents died at 71 and 77, so split the difference.

    My wife's parents died at 79 and 88. Unlucky her!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 827 ✭✭✭pxdf9i5cmoavkz


    When I discover that I have one of the dementia's (family history) I will check out. The problem is that I may forget about this promise because you know... dementia :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,055 ✭✭✭Emme


    70s would be enough for me unless I am very rich, very sharp and very fit in my old age. I want to die quickly - ie be dead before I hit the ground so to speak. I have seen enough suffering in my family and a long life is not always a good thing. I am not averse to euthanasia for myself if it is available in Ireland when the time comes, otherwise I would be willing to travel for it.

    I think a good few people in the 40s and 50s will be dying earlier than their parents because they have more stressful lives. They have longer commutes and work longer hours. People will also be expected to work longer up to retirement and many will die shortly before or shortly after retirement. Not necessarily a bad thing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 942 ✭✭✭Ghekko


    Father's side lived into their 80's and 90's. Mums side into 70's but her parents were younger when they died, so who knows. The problems the grandparents had would be easier treated now anyway. I'd like to say 90's as long as I was as with it as my father was - he was still driving in his 90's.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,455 ✭✭✭✭Fitz*


    Didn't join the 27 club so anything from now onwards is a bonus.

    I do like to live life so when the time is up, I won't have any regrets.
    Now, I must saw that I do partake in most things a bit too excessively - alcohol, social media, enjoy a take away, etc but I do exercise regularly and don't smoke. Like to get fresh air.

    I'd be happy with 75 I would imagine. Hopefully I can go peacefully.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,734 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    I'm going to take a crack at 100 with at least 1 robotic limb.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,073 ✭✭✭Rubberlegs


    This is something I have been thinking about lately. I want to live for as long as I can but only if I am healthy. All my grandparent's bar one made it to late 80s/90. I fully expected to see my Dad reach 85 but lost him age 73 from cancer contracted in the workplace. My mother now has cancer for the second time, never smoked, rarely had a drink. It does make me wonder am I next in line to get it and after seeing what it does to someone close now for the third time, it terrifies me. Once I stay healthy and independent I want to live to see great grandchildren, what a privilege that would be! :)


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,429 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    I’m pretty good shape. Eat well, sleep well, and lots of down time and low stress levels. Decent genetic history, and a nice defined benefits pension.

    I’d imagine I’ll be hit by a bus the week after I retire.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,468 ✭✭✭CruelCoin


    80's

    I have no intention to live into old age in discomfort and frailty, dribbling from Alzheimers/dementia etc.

    Once I feel myself being "past it" then I'll just off myself.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    mike_ie wrote: »
    Flowing Data have a simulator that details the things most likely to lead to a person’s death in any given simulated lifespan.

    If I remember correctly, they correlated the causes of death across all ages in the USA to build a statistical model. Enter in your age, ethnicity and gender, and watch your life unfold in front of you. What makes it interesting (to me at least) is the shift in varying causes of death for the different age demographics depending on age.


    Capture_3553411b.jpg

    https://flowingdata.com/projects/2016/death-simulation/death-sim.html
    25% of white men die before 60..wtf


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,511 ✭✭✭✭rob316


    You literally have no control over it. Healthy lifestyle choices are more for the now I believe than seen how long you live. Life is for living, it'll get very boring if you are worried about everything you do or consume.

    My grandfather died at 92, a healthy horse of a man who smoked nearly 100 major a day well into his 60s.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,554 ✭✭✭Sundew


    100!
    I’ve every intention of picking up me Cheque!


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