Confused

mickf479

Hey.

Looking for some advice on here. Let me start by saying I am in a relationship with a girl now for the past 8 years but decided about 4 years or so ago to have a go at some male to male fun with a bi friend of mine just out of curiosity. Needless to say it wasn't the worst thing in the world. There was no anal sex just some oral fun. Problem is that since then i have wanted to have sex with a transgender to see if i would enjoy it. Find myself looking at a lot of trans porn these days. Any help or advice would be much appreciated.

love_love

Have you cheated on your partner? I'd start there.

Goodshape

Please keep in mind that any porn is pretty far removed from reality at the best of times, and that probably goes double or triple for porn featuring trans* actors.

Trans* people are people. They aren't sex toys for you to experiment with.

The only advice I would give is to discuss it with your current partner, or to reevaluate your current relationship and explore your sexuality on your own time.

trik

Seriously, what kind of 'help' or 'advice' are you looking for? Pick-up tips? ��

JackTaylorFan

Yeah, if this is a genuine query, your attitude towards transwomen is disgusting.

P_1

Dude cop on will you. Trans people are people not playthings to satisfy your sexual urges. Not to mention the fact you want to cheat with your partner.

Look if you want to open your relationship fine, just remember it's a 2 way street so your partner also gets to play with others.

If you want to sleep with someone else then find a hookup app but bear in mind how sleazy those places can be

_Godot_

Please don't refer to trans people as "a transgender". It makes us sounds like things, we're people too.

wakka12

Well first of all I think most trans people will not appreciate the way you prefer to them at all, like an object. Calling them 'a' transgender would imply you don't consider any aspect of their personality or being beyond the fact that they're transgender

8 years is also a long term and serious relationship and the fact that you slept with a man doesnt mean its not cheating, its unfair to your girlfriend to keep this relationship going and wasting her prime of life(guessing you are both in your thirties by your username), she's probably invested in it and sees a future and you're just on here asking people on a forum what kind of people you should go cheat on her(again) with

Ten of Swords

Looks like op has closed his account!