Disputing AH card for "personal abuse"

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

dudara

Permabear, sorry that this has taken so long. Since you’ve already addressed this with the mod, I’ll ask a CMod to review

dudara

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

Hi Permabear.

I will be your host.

I'm up to my eyes personally at the moment, I will try to get to this in the morning, if not it will be Monday, I hope that's okay.

L

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

Permabear wrote: »

This post had been deleted.

Many thanks, I am now contacting the Mod to see what we can do.

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

No bother at all.

Can I ask you why you felt the need to take the cancer part into your argument?
Can you see how that might have upset a few people including the poster you were arguing with?

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

I have already spoken to the mod and personal abuse was not the right action here.

To me, it is borderline uncivil as you did cross the moral line.

In saying that and having read the thread with the exchanges between you both, there was definitely a pair of you in it.

What I can do is offer you a chance to contact Dara via PM with an apology for the cancer comment and for you to both have a virtual handshake.

Pending a successful handshake, I will talk to the Admins with regard to getting your yellow card lifted.

If you choose to do this, please include me in any exchanges so I know it happened.

The clique stuff is not for here but I would suggest that you keep on it and use the appropriate supports to aid you.

Let me know if you are happy with this?

All the best,

LEIN

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

Leave it with me.

LEIN

I haven't forgotten you.

PMs are off, I am looking for an alternative at the moment.

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

Hi P.

I have discussed this with my fellow CMod and admins.
Since you engaged and tried to resolve without success, I have requested that the yellow is overturned.

May I please suggest that you put the poster who you clashed with onto your ignore list to prevent this from happening again?

Please allow 48 hours for the yellow to disappear.

Many thanks for your polite engagement here and your willingness to try and resolve.

Take care,

L


Resolved

Beasty

Yellow card reversed

Marking resolved

Permabear

This post has been deleted.

LEIN

You're very welcome

dudara

Delighted that it’s all sorted. Marking this as resolved now.