Going crazy with ED!

LegacyUser

Good Afternoon GC,

I'm a single 23 year old man and I'm pretty certain I've Erectile Dysfunction. Last night I was with a girl and couldn't maintain my erection. I was loving the sex, the kissing, the foreplay, but I was thinking too much and couldn't finish. In addition, I was sharing the room with another couple and the fella was lobbing it into the other girl, so I felt under even more pressure, because he was fit and she was enjoying her time, whilst my bird was obviously upset I couldn't last long. Sorry about the gory details but she was rubbing me and I was getting hard again but still couldn't come.

I should have written this post ages ago however. I've never been the most sexual person and I don't like it. I'm pretty sure I'm good looking and confident but when it comes to the sack, I'm zero craic. I've never come from a blowjob or a handjob, and only rarely have I come inside a girl (had a girlfriend for 3 years and god love her she tried and we finally got there after about 6 months). I know it can come down to performance anxiety but I'd really love to be able to go out, shag someone and come and not have to stay the night worrying about what I've done and what I've failed to do!

I'm also positive it's not an attraction thing, I've questioned in the past whether I might be gay but I've never been attracted to men and have saw women that I would like to ride. I think the problem could lie in masturbation. I can come within a few minutes and now my own ways. But is there anybody out there who's had this issue in the past, or is having this issue? You feel like the only sad f*ck on planet earth when this happens to you, especially with a Brazilian fella beside you riding his one like the grand national. I don't excercise too much and drink a bit so I'm going to work on this but I don't think it will be the cure.

Problem is I'm drinking a lot more when I go out to have the courage to talk to women, and I think it's a direct consequence of this. I've had 4 women in the post and this has happened every time.

adam88

Floppy Richard wrote: »

Good Afternoon GC,

I'm a single 23 year old man and I'm pretty certain I've Erectile Dysfunction. Last night I was with a girl and couldn't maintain my erection. I was loving the sex, the kissing, the foreplay, but I was thinking too much and couldn't finish. In addition, I was sharing the room with another couple and the fella was lobbing it into the other girl, so I felt under even more pressure, because he was fit and she was enjoying her time, whilst my bird was obviously upset I couldn't last long. Sorry about the gory details but she was rubbing me and I was getting hard again but still couldn't come.

I should have written this post ages ago however. I've never been the most sexual person and I don't like it. I'm pretty sure I'm good looking and confident but when it comes to the sack, I'm zero craic. I've never come from a blowjob or a handjob, and only rarely have I come inside a girl (had a girlfriend for 3 years and god love her she tried and we finally got there after about 6 months). I know it can come down to performance anxiety but I'd really love to be able to go out, shag someone and come and not have to stay the night worrying about what I've done and what I've failed to do!

I'm also positive it's not an attraction thing, I've questioned in the past whether I might be gay but I've never been attracted to men and have saw women that I would like to ride. I think the problem could lie in masturbation. I can come within a few minutes and now my own ways. But is there anybody out there who's had this issue in the past, or is having this issue? You feel like the only sad f*ck on planet earth when this happens to you, especially with a Brazilian fella beside you riding his one like the grand national. I don't excercise too much and drink a bit so I'm going to work on this but I don't think it will be the cure.

Problem is I'm drinking a lot more when I go out to have the courage to talk to women, and I think it's a direct consequence of this. I've had 4 women in the post and this has happened every time.

Firstly I miss those types of nites where your randomly sharing a room with a couple who you don’t know form Adam lol.

Yip think it’s down to that your too used to your own grip, obviously it’s tighter that a vagina and you know the technique that works for you. Invest in a fleshlight and ease of on masturbation and porn.

Edit .... have to ask how you landed into a room with a strange couple,???

Dickie10

yes this is exactly what happens with me! thank god theres someone else like me. was going out with a girl for three months last year and im pretty sure this was what happened. i too like to paddle my own canoe quite a bit if you know what i mean. perhaps up to three times a day. defo twice every day. id say if i did ease off it i could easily come with a bit of stimulation but i need a ggirlfriend to do this. whats a fleshlight?? any help for me would be greatly appreciated too

Gael23

Wondered about this too. I can bang one out myself in a few minutes with a little lube but in bed I can't come hardly ever.