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Dilemma - advice?

  • 24-01-2018 4:17pm
    #1
    robarmstrong
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭


    Hi guys,

    I'm not really an active poster as such but I've come across quite a conundrum.

    The "so-called" owner of a certain Dublin Cafe has been sending my sister horrific abuse on SnapChat because she rejected his advances. Naturally I messaged him asking him to apologize* because it was a tad out of line and to be honest quite f*cking disgusting only to be met with abuse towards myself and my partner (sarcastically making remarks about our deceased son).

    I'm in two minds on this situation, drop it and go along with things, or print off everything he's said and sellotape it to his shop windows.

    Thoughts?

    (so-called owner because CRO and solocheck don't have him as a director so I'm thinking maybe someone is playing Walter Mitty)

    *asked to apologize because of the sheer volatile things said so was indirectly hoping someone took his phone as he seemed like a nice bloke.


Comments

  • #2
    i71jskz5xu42pb
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,806 ✭✭✭i71jskz5xu42pb


    robarmstrong wrote: »
    Hi guys,

    I'm not really an active poster as such but I've come across quite a conundrum.


    Thoughts?

    Go in and talk to him calmly face to face before you do anything else, you're both adults.


  • #3
    robarmstrong
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    Emmie Careful Panacea wrote: »
    Go in and talk to him calmly face to face before you do anything else, you're both adults.

    He's not there, just owns it. Did offer that though.


  • #4
    Malayalam
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,188 ✭✭✭Malayalam


    He sounds like a fool. And nasty. And possibly insane.


  • #5
    Kimbot
    Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,809 Mod ✭✭✭✭Kimbot


    MOD Moved to PI in agreement with user, please note the charter that applies now.


  • #6
    cbyrd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,214 ✭✭✭cbyrd


    Print it out and report it to the guards in case anything happens. Cyber bullying is taken pretty seriously. Don't reply or engage him.


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  • #7
    Zipppy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,055 ✭✭✭Zipppy


    cbyrd wrote:
    Print it out and report it to the guards in case anything happens. Cyber bullying is taken pretty seriously. Don't reply or engage him.


    excellent advice..OP please take this advice.


  • #8
    spaceHopper
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,101 ✭✭✭spaceHopper


    Block them on SM, keep print outs and move on


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