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Can’t seem to fall in love anymore

  • 30-10-2017 10:21am
    #1
    TheYoungWan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭


    I’ve been out as a lesbian for years now, I’m 35 now and had 4 serious relationships. But since my last one ended around 4 years ago ( she’s moved on now and engaged to be married donchu know! ) I haven’t met anyone I’ve been remotely interested in. It’s odd for me as I’ve always had crushes to keep me occupied but there really hasn’t been anyone to spike my interest. I’ve really become a recluse these days, not going out to any gay bars etc because I just get depressed seeing happy couples etc and I can’t seem to meet anyone. Is this it?


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  • #2
    nkav86
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 714 ✭✭✭nkav86


    Would you look, it's me! Or at least until recently. I went through a long period of just not being interested, only way I can describe it. But one day I passed a woman I found attractive and it's like a light bulb went off, I actually text a mate to tell her! I rarely go out in town, I'm over the scene business, there was a point where I never went anywhere but I had depression issues coupled with it. At the moment, I'm having a flirtation with a woman and it's fun but nothing serious, don't despair and try not to be so caught up in relationships. It can get you down!

    Enjoy being single, or find ways to enjoy it. It won't always be this way, but you don't wanna become the woman that has no life beyond their partner.


  • #3
    TheYoungWan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9 ✭TheYoungWan


    nkav86 wrote: »
    Would you look, it's me! Or at least until recently. I went through a long period of just not being interested, only way I can describe it. But one day I passed a woman I found attractive and it's like a light bulb went off, I actually text a mate to tell her! I rarely go out in town, I'm over the scene business, there was a point where I never went anywhere but I had depression issues coupled with it. At the moment, I'm having a flirtation with a woman and it's fun but nothing serious, don't despair and try not to be so caught up in relationships. It can get you down!

    Enjoy being single, or find ways to enjoy it. It won't always be this way, but you don't wanna become the woman that has no life beyond their partner.

    Aw thanks so much for the post, that really has cheered me up! I’ll make an effort to open my eyes, an oul fun flirtation would be the ticket now - but I’ll enjoy being single as well :) Thabks again you’re a star!


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