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Fear of coming across clingy

  • 19-08-2017 12:56pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. I've started seeing someone that I really like, it's iust been maybe 3 weeks now and he seems to really like me. For some reason I am terrified of being the one to initiate any texting or call at all. Now he has done most of it, but when I know it's probably my turn I just completely get so scared and I don't know why! It ends up me not doing anything and he will eventually text but I'm also scared he will get tired of that! I suppose I'm afraid he'll think I'm getting to like him too much and I feel a bit vulnerable at the moment. What should I do, apart from contacting first, to stop this anxiety that will ruin what we have! I'm overthinking everything and i have no reason to, he has said everything to make me think he wants to keep seeing me. I'm just scared I'll text and he'll think wow clinger.


Comments

  • #2
    dellas1979
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,128 ✭✭✭dellas1979


    Just for perspective, what age are ye?

    And is text the primary method of contact?


  • #3
    George Sunsnow
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,043 ✭✭✭George Sunsnow


    Even if text is the primary method,initiating a conversation once a day is not clingy
    So OP do it

    Set your rule as being a text train starter twice a day and no more unless urgent or arranging something and you'll be fine :)


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