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Ex did contact me now my heads all over the place again

Confused2828 · 2017-07-24 21:46:23

I posted here last week about how my ex just broke up with me and he had text to say sorry, then he contacted me again saying he was depressed and needed to get himself together and would I be willing to give it another go then when he does, he had been texting me and it was getting too much I don't want to be just…

24-07-2017 9:46pm

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Confused2828

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I posted here last week about how my ex just broke up with me and he had text to say sorry, then he contacted me again saying he was depressed and needed to get himself together and would I be willing to give it another go then when he does, he had been texting me and it was getting too much I don't want to be just friendly and he's talking about how he feels and if I spoke about how hurt I felt and then he was saying it doesn't have to be like that he just needs to get himself together, but it's holding onto the hurt for me , I'm all over the place with it now again, I don't know what to make of it last I heard from him was Friday

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#2 25-07-2017 12:24pm

ellie1

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You are not responsible for his feelings but you are responsible for your own. If you don't want to feel confused , don't answer his texts, block him from your phone and elsewhere. Concentrate on feeling confident and strong in yourself by joining a gym, meeting friends , plan a holiday etc.

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#3 25-07-2017 1:51pm

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Not a lot of detail there but he sounds like a head melter. If he broke your heart once, chances are he'll do it again. He

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#4 26-07-2017 10:28am

stargazer 68

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Op why are you letting this guy have such control over your life? He is keeping you hanging on until he is ready. Block his number and don't let him string you along - you are better than that. It will be difficult but you really will move on.

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#5 26-07-2017 11:50am

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Your ex is a bum who stayed in bed or drank all day when he was at your house. When you asked for this to change, he didn't speak to you for a week and then dumped you by text ... after 4.5 years.

Tell him to stop contacting you and then block his number and get on with your life.

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#6 26-07-2017 2:23pm

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I think you were told in the other thread to block his number, he dumped you by txt after 4.5 year relationship which is not very mature. And now he is out of your house he is trying to get back in touch!

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