Butterflies

LegacyUser

I've a new boyfriend just a few weeks in
We spend the night together as much as possible I've a huge attraction to him and we get on great
He's absolutely beautiful but dirty in bed and very experienced which I like a lot

The trouble is my feelings are intense I get butterflies in my stomach around him so can't eat a whole lot and can't drink
I just have an upset stomach

Anyone else get this,what did you do
I'm two steps away for asking my doctor for Valium or something just to rest me ,my heart beats so much around him
Thanks

kylith

It's just early stage infatuation nerves They'll wear off as the relationship progresses. In the meantime just try to take some deep breaths and stay calm.

Dixie Chick

Give it about 2 months and you will be eating Dominos in bed. Enjoy the butterflies now, they are amazing

Airyfairy12

Awe this is so cute I always get those feelings when im falling for someone. I used to get physically sick before meeting up with my first long term partner because the infatuation nerves were so intense lol. It goes away once you get comfortable in the relationship.

retro:electro

I used to take shots of whiskey before meeting my boyfriend when we first got together, I was that nervous! I'd consider myself a laid back person, but I'd turn into a mumbling idiot around him and talk absolute nonsense. Enjoy it while it lasts!

jimmycrackcorm

Booterbutter wrote:

The trouble is my feelings are intense I get butterflies in my stomach around him so can't eat a whole lot and can't drink I just have an upset stomach

Enjoy and embrace the excitement OP because there'll come a time soon that it's impossible to feel that.

It'll get replaced by whose turn is it to put the dishwasher on.

BetsyEllen

I remember this well from when I met my last BF.
It's funny because at the time you don't want to feel that way but after the initial few months when it's died away you miss it!