Kicked out at 19

Nene1234

So I'm doing my leaving cert and have 2 days until I'm done I'm 19 with no job I post my cv everywhere with no luck my parents kicked me out and I don't know what to do I'm so scared because I have no other family and my parents and I do not get along they always tell me that I am going to fail in and I do everything to prove to them that I won't I don't know what to I only have €100 in my bank account someone please help me all the help would appreciate

SCOOP 64

Nene1234 wrote: »

So I'm doing my leaving cert and have 2 days until I'm done I'm 19 with no job I post my cv everywhere with no luck my parents kicked me out and I don't know what to do I'm so scared because I have no other family and my parents and I do not get along they always tell me that I am going to fail in and I do everything to prove to them that I won't I don't know what to I only have €100 in my bank account someone please help me all the help would appreciate

This is very similar to another post last week, doing leaving cert and being kick out by parents , see if i can find it, might help.

Nene1234

SCOOP 64 wrote: »

This is very similar to another post last week, doing leaving cert and being kick out by parents , see if i can find it, might help.

Thank you so much

clairewithani

Nene1234 wrote: »

So I'm doing my leaving cert and have 2 days until I'm done I'm 19 with no job I post my cv everywhere with no luck my parents kicked me out and I don't know what to do I'm so scared because I have no other family and my parents and I do not get along they always tell me that I am going to fail in and I do everything to prove to them that I won't I don't know what to I only have €100 in my bank account someone please help me all the help would appreciate

This is terrible, you must be scared. What part of the country are you in? Have you friends?

Nene1234

clairewithani wrote: »

This is terrible, you must be scared. What part of the country are you in? Have you friends?

I live in Dublin and I have about a handful of friends but none close enough to share all these embarrassing things to my parents always ague with me about having too many friends and always forcing me to stay home

Slydice

With just 2 days before finishing your leaving cert. Damn

Here's the Dublin City Council Homeless website:
http://www.dublincity.ie/main-menu-services-housing-homeless-services/if-you-are-homeless

If you are, or about to become homeless, you should make yourself aware of your options and rights as soon as possible. It is important to understand who you need to contact and what services are available for you.

There are different contact details for different parts of the city depending on where you are.

The local authority will organise temporary accommodation for you if you have nowhere else to stay and will assign you a Housing Officer, who will work with you to put in place more long-term accommodation options.

cronos

Nene1234 wrote: »

I live in Dublin and I have about a handful of friends but none close enough to share all these embarrassing things to my parents always ague with me about having too many friends and always forcing me to stay home

I'd suggest even friends that are not so close would be happy to help in this sort of situation. Especially so close to the exams.

If it does not work then yes the other options above will be a good alternative. Try and concentrate on the exams by any means necessary. You might find hanging out on a college campus that's open 24 7 as a good option while studying and sorting something out for yourself.

Nene1234

Slydice wrote: »

With just 2 days before finishing your leaving cert. Damn

Here's the Dublin City Council Homeless website:
http://www.dublincity.ie/main-menu-services-housing-homeless-services/if-you-are-homeless


There are different contact details for different parts of the city depending on where you are.

Thank you so much I will try and see what they say this is very much appreciated

BorneTobyWilde

Sad that your parents would do that to you. And sad that there are plenty of people on here in your area with spare rooms that won't help you out.

Wheelnut

Why are your parants kicking you out?

Nene1234

Wheelnut wrote: »

Why are your parants kicking you out?

I really don't know I go to school cause no trouble and I hardly go out or drink I'm the oldest of four children and my parents and I constantly argue overly little things my father is very violent with no job my mother is the bread winner

cronos

Nene1234 wrote: »

I really don't know I go to school cause no trouble and I hardly go out or drink I'm the oldest of four children and my parents and I constantly argue overly little things my father is very violent with no job my mother is the bread winner

Are you a boy or girl. Think boys tend to have issues with fathers of this attitude. Think it's usually resentment on the part of the father for them not being young anymore. You are likely better off out of this situation. Maybe the case your mother is at risk here.

nikkibikki

If your father is violent in the home, your siblings and mother are at risk. I would urge you to please reach out to Tusla in relation to this.

4ensic15

Contact the chaplain in your school. They will help with emergency accommodation until you finish your exams.

Paulw

Mod Post: Not really an Accommodation and Property issue but might be better suited in Personal Issues to get advice there.