gf making fun of my ears

mats14

[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]My ears are sticking out a bit (like Will Smith). I was quite unconfident about it, for a long long time since I was picked on regularly because of this until I came out of high school. So when I was 6 months into my new relationship… she started to call me 'earman' or just grab an ear in the bed and said ‘ear’ from time to time. Wasnt thinking much of this even tho I wasnt glad about it. Yesterday we were lying on the bed and all of sudden from nowhere she grabbed my ear, pinned it back to my head and said ‘what if they glue them back like this’… I said ‘well I think in that case I would get a girlfriend with a lil less cellulite’ (she put some weight on since we met and her ass was not small to begin with, but it didnt bothered me). [/font]

[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]Lately I was asking myself what is the purpose of all that ear stuff? i mean really… WHY? Subtle (or not so subtle) way of telling me she doesnt fancy my ears and that I should do something about it?! Or is that just a **** testing? I don’t know. One time I just said ‘whats your deal with my ears?’ she said ‘nothing’…. right…[/font]
[font=verdana, arial, helvetica, sans-serif]What should i think of this... advice?[/font]

Toots

She sounds like a wagon tbh. I'd probably tell her to take a hike but if you want to give her another chance say "It really bothers me how you constantly go on about my ears and I'd like you to stop" if she continues you pretty much know where you stand.

Conor Bourke

Toots wrote: »

She sounds like a wagon tbh. I'd probably tell her to take a hike but if you want to give her another chance say "It really bothers me how you constantly go on about my ears and I'd like you to stop" if she continues you pretty much know where you stand.

Agree with all of the above, and saying the piece in bold would've been a lot more mature and constructive than sinking to trading insults, though I can understand the reflex to lash out when you feel hurt.

StripedBoxers

I would break up with her, simple as. I've no tolerance for behaviour like that.

She should have more cop on and maturity for a grown up adult.

When you said to her about getting a girlfriend with "a lil less cellulite", what did she say? You shouldn't have said it, instead you should have addressed the issue about your ears directly, rather than reacting with another insult, although I can see where you were coming from, it was immature on your behalf. Two wrongs don't make a right.

Ursus Horribilis

OP have you posted about this before? I remember a guy mentioning Will Smith ears and a girlfriend who wasn't very nice to him.Though maybe these sorts of lovely ladies are more common than we think.

Big Bag of Chips

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