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Dating advice

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  • 08-05-2017 10:29pm
    #1
    fire_man
    Registered Users Posts: 976 ✭✭✭


    Saw a girl the other night, first date went well. I can see she is still logged into dating site.Should I take it she is not into long term relationship?


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    tracey turnblad
    Registered Users Posts: 657 ✭✭✭tracey turnblad


    So were you logged in if you could see her? Maybe she's just keeping her options open


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    Insect Overlord
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,857 Mod ✭✭✭✭Insect Overlord


    It was just the first date. Wait until ye've been seeing each other for a month or so before expecting it to be exclusive.


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    fire_man
    Registered Users Posts: 976 ✭✭✭fire_man


    Ya I just logged on and saw her on it. Texting since first date and getting on well.


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    Penny Tration
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,687 ✭✭✭✭Penny Tration


    It was one date, she's hardly going to log off and be exclusive yet.

    Generally, people will be having first dates with a few different people, and eventually decide who they want more with.


    Sure she could have been checking if you were online (which you were!).


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    #6
    fire_man
    Registered Users Posts: 976 ✭✭✭fire_man


    I just logged on and off a few times and she was online but will stay on now she sees me!


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    Albertie
    Registered Users Posts: 8 ✭Albertie


    It depends on the individual as if she is interested and also if the portal or website is having really genuine profiles over there not like for had some profile to make money only, though you can text her if you got her mobile no else try to text on that dating website where you find her and ask for another next meeting casually and see how it goes and you will have a good idea by then if she replies or not so best not to make guess just ask is the best way to know, you will find best if she is not for you in case.


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    #8
    Surreptitious
    Registered Users Posts: 8,130 ✭✭✭Surreptitious


    I'd say he copped on after 4 years


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    #9
    .anon.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,094 ✭✭✭.anon.


    I want to know what happened. Was there a second date? Is it a case of "Reader, I married her..."? Have they had four kids since the thread started? Are they still both logging on to dating sites?

    200.gif


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    Pawwed Rig
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Home & Garden Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 22,294 CMod ✭✭✭✭Pawwed Rig


    .anon. wrote: »
    I want to know what happened. Was there a second date? Is it a case of "Reader, I married her..."? Have they had four kids since the thread started? Are they still both logging on to dating sites?

    Seems to have worked out :pac:

    Well done OP :)


    https://touch.boards.ie/thread/2058124901/1/#post115067694


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    Rodney Bathgate
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,445 ✭✭✭Rodney Bathgate


    Pawwed Rig wrote: »
    Seems to have worked out :pac:

    Well done OP :)


    https://touch.boards.ie/thread/2058124901/1/#post115067694

    Timeline doesn’t quite fit.

    He says a ‘couple of years’ in his October 2020 thread. This thread was started May 2017 so the gap in threads is almost 3.5 years.

    The OP needs to clarify if it is the same lady or not.


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    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,075 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Zombie thread, shot in the head.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



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