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I don't know what to be thinking

  • 23-04-2017 12:59pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm really stuck on this one. One of my good friends didn't invite me to his 21st last week.

    There is a group of about 8 of us. We have been friends since secondary school. We try to meet up for a game of football, or pints ect a few times month. It's always good fun, and we all look forward to it.

    My friend was 21 last week had a birthday of pres in his house and then on to a nightclub. I wasn't invited. Now he I knows I'm not the biggest fan of clubs, and I don't often go, but I do the odd time. Maybe this is why he didn't mention it? But all of are group were there, friends he hasn't seen since secondary school and friends from elsewhere.

    He didn't even mention it to me on when we were playing football the day before. One of the other lads asked me was I going out tomorrow the day before his birthday, and I said I'll see. He wasn't happy with that response, but I don't think he didn't know I wasn't invited.

    I really don't know how to take this, because as soon as I saw all the lads snapchats I was devastated. I've been in a bad mood all week over this.


Comments

  • #2
    LLMMLL
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,590 ✭✭✭LLMMLL


    Probably best to just ask him.


  • #3
    Lux23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,134 ✭✭✭Lux23


    Just ask him. Perhaps it was a mix up?


  • #4
    baldbear
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,618 ✭✭✭baldbear


    Looking back when i was 20 their are definatly things i would do differently.

    Maybe your friend will feel the same about this when he looks back.

    He should have asked anyway even if he thought it wasn't your thing. But at 20 guys just sometimes just don't think.

    Just say it to him. Ask how his birthday went & maybe he might open up.about not asking you. It might be a bit awkward.

    Good luck.


  • #5
    sashafierce
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,599 ✭✭✭sashafierce


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