How to shift a girl?

LegacyUser

So I'm a fridget right and iv agreed to get with this one but I have no clue what to do can anyone tell me how I'd go about it

Ursus Horribilis

If that's the way you talk about girls, then maybe it's better that you remain a fridget(sic). With an attitude like that, any self-respecting girl would run a mile. She's a person, not a piece of meat to drop the hand on.

Klonker

I think he just wants to know how to actually kiss a girl, he didn't say anything about dropping the hand so get down off your white horse.

OP I was the same when younger, afraid I'd do it wrong or something but it's fairly simple, you just open mouth kiss and move your tongue around. Just don't stick your tongue down her throat and avoid banging teeth and you'll be grand.

elefant

Ursus Horribilis wrote: »

If that's the way you talk about girls, then maybe it's better that you remain a fridget(sic). With an attitude like that, any self-respecting girl would run a mile. She's a person, not a piece of meat to drop the hand on.

A bit harsh? He's clearly just nervous.

Ursus Horribilis

Perhaps I was being harsh but my blood boiled at his reference to "this one". I take it she's some willing lass lined up by your mates to "de-fridgid" you? In that case, let her take the lead and follow what she's doing. Just don't go in hammer and tongs with your tongue and make her think she's kissing a washing machine .

padd b1975

Ursus Horribilis wrote: »

If that's the way you talk about girls, then maybe it's better that you remain a fridget(sic). With an attitude like that, any self-respecting girl would run a mile. She's a person, not a piece of meat to drop the hand on.

How do you know the OP isn't a girl, or is it only boys that talk in that immature but ultimately harmless manner?

OP, the lucky guy or girl will probably be as nervous as you are, so take solace in that.
They obviously like you too otherwise you wouldn't be in the situation you're in.

If it's going to happen, it will happen naturally-trust me on that. Try and find some common interests and chat about that.
One thing I would make a point of doing is easing back on the old macho speak, it might impress some people but respect and good manners will get you a lot further with the right people.

Good luck!

Merkin

I think that's your question answered OP. Thread closed.