Move too quickly

Alittlesmitten

So just a brief description...

I was engaged that relationship broke up about 12 months ago.. haven't met anyone since until about 3 weeks bumped into a girl I knowWe went on a few dates a few years ago nothing major.. she lives about 2 hours away from me... we have also been friends on Facebook etc not much interaction until we actually met.

Anyway when we bumped into each other we got on absolutely fantastic so much so we have spoken everyday and I went down to her for a few days.. we are very much in the honeymoon stage I know we have a lot of common interests etc.

The thing is I'm going on holidays in about 2 months and I asked in passing would she like to come and she said ya.. is it too soon???

Cupcake_Crisis

Do you want her to go with you?

Then it's not too soon.

Alittlesmitten

Cupcake_Crisis wrote: »

Do you want her to go with you?

Then it's not too soon.

I do..

Airyfairy12

Alittlesmitten wrote: »

I do..

Then bring her, it sounds like it will be fun

BetsyEllen

I don't think it's too soon at all.
If it feels comfortable and right then why not. It's a lovely part of the relationship to be in, the beginning is always great so just go with the flow and enjoy it.

Don't worry about are things too fast. So long as you're both on the same page then just do what feels right

Big Bag of Chips

Not necessarily too soon. But who are you going on holiday with? A group mightn't be too bad, but if you're going with one other person, and suddenly they are now going on holiday with a couple that mightn't exactly be fun for them.

zoobizoo

Travelling is a great way to get to know someone... .

If you're getting on well, then why not.

Go have fun

El_Duderino 09

BetsyEllen wrote:

I don't think it's too soon at all. If it feels comfortable and right then why not. It's a lovely part of the relationship to be in, the beginning is always great so just go with the flow and enjoy it.

And be mindful that holidays are actually stressful times. So cut each other some slack. Give each other free time to mooch about on their own.

Holidays are a strange mix of excitement and relaxation and mundane real life. You might feel you need to entertain each other all the time which would be difficult to maintain. Be realistic and chat with her about what you both want to do on a holiday.

beertons

Are you going on holidays on your own?

whiskeyman

All relationships move at different paces.
You'll know what's right for yours.
Try to ignore any 'rules' or assume there's any norms and you'll both be better for it, as long as you're both happy and comfortable.
Fair play for asking her! Go on enjoy yourselves!!