Does She Like Me???

LegacyUser

So there's this girl I've gotten very close to in the past few months. I am absolutely crazy about her. The thing is, her and my ex used to be best friends. I talked to her occasionally before but only really small talk. Before me and my ex broke up they fell out. Now we all had the same circle of friends at the time but I was never particularly close to this girl. I don't know how it happened but about a month after me and my ex broke up, me and her ex best friend started to become closer as the months went by. We would go for pizza together and spend all night just driving around and text each other around the clock (I don't think we've gone half a day without talking to each other in nearly 6 months).

Now my ex noticed that we got pretty close and that it was strange because we never really talked much before said it to me and I said it to her and she said she would never do that to her. Now that's fair enough but I did fall in love with her. We meet up every weekend, either Friday night or Saturday night and often both nights and we would be alone the majority of the time. She even came to a car rally with me at 5 in the morning in the middle of December and she has zero interest in cars whatsover and we spent the entire day together, which some of my friends say was a huge sign she has interest in me.

She never talks about any boys or anything around me and we often spend our weekend nights sitting in a car park talking for hours about anything that comes to mind. Personally I am too afraid to tell her how I feel because I have not got a clue if she feels the same way and I'm worried it will affect our friendship. I even asked her out for dinner just the two of us and she said yes but I'm still not sure if it's a date or just hanging out. It's really annoying me so any advice would be much appreciated!

BetsyEllen

Sounds to me like you're both mad about each other but neither of you have the courage to say anything!

It's Valentines soon. Ask her out for dinner that night, if someone asks you out for Valentines there should be no confusion of their intentions.

I'm not sure if you'd feel comfortable turning up with card, if not I'd bring a box of chocolates though or something small.
I wouldn't normally suggest gifts on a date but V day is the exception to the rule!

LegacyUser

Op that sounds so romantic

What have you got to lose? You've got everything to gain! I wouldn't go to a rally at 5 am unless it was to meet George Cooney!

I would be shocked if she didn't feel the same. Talk to her.

Mr. Incognito

her and my ex used to be best friends.

This is probably why she hasnt made a move or you havent either.

Just ask her out.

Your ex has nothing to do with either of your lives.

Walter H Price

100% think you should go for it Op it sounds like this girl likes you , maybe holding off getting any closer given you were with her best mate before. I was in a similar situation a few years back was friends with 2 girls who were best mates , in college, got on fantastic with both , eventually started dating one but it didnt work out she was a nice girl but there was just no spark there. Started to realise shortly after that i was having real feelings for the other girl like that textin , chatting , going out all the time we just got really close. She told one of the lads that she liked me but didn't think she would ever get with me because of my relationship with the other girl , he told me but i wasn't put off i went for it asked her out properly .... long story short , November 16th this year she becomes my wife, having been together now for 5 years.

Valentines day in 12 days buddy grab that bull by the horns ask her out , make it special , from reading your post its an open goal bud just got to slot it home

needadvice1234

needadvice1234 wrote: »

Now my ex noticed that we got pretty close and that it was strange because we never really talked much before said it to me and I said it to her and she said she would never do that to her.

Said she would never go out with her friend's ex?? Is this the problem?

Because without even meeting you two it seems obvious yissir mad about each other.