Should i beat my ex girlfriend

Bykobap

Relationships, i was told it had to be mine baby, its not. I pampered to every need she had massages, smoothies, cooking healthy stuff, cleaning, earned a wage at childbirth etc... she never lifted a finger, had it all.

Two weeks since birth of baby i came to know its not my baby.

DNA test was done because of certain disclosure.

Hers mother came over to celebrate the birth and once I knew baby was not mine i concluded i will keep the lid on and let all of them stay in my house until her mother is gone home.

So mother went home(abroad) and the very same day i sent my ex girlfriend to womens refuge with her baby.

Monday she registered with county council housing department.

Now, my ex calls me saying that womens refuge has to throw her out because I am not violent towards her.

She has no friends, no money, nowhere to go, most certainly not coming back to my house.

Owns me a lot of money too, which i forgave.

Anyway, apart from internet apathy, what the f@@k is she ment to do?

What the f@@k am i ment to do, cut the cord, pun intended or keep assisting her.

Sorry for bad grammar and that but snapkick as Trent would say.

I am drinking heavily too since... I know i know i can't help it

Had enough of writing this post, what's the craic regarding her next step, is she going to be thrown out of womens refuge or is co council going to accommodate her needs etc..

Thanks lads

beechwood55

Can she go back to her home country? Her mother sounds close to her if she came over to celebrate the baby's birth.

smelly sock

Not your problem lad. Who knocked her up?

Bykobap

No passport, who cares who done the deed.

ahnowbrowncow

She's not your problem any more, especially if she lied and cheated which I'm presuming she did.

Kristopherus

How did she get here so?

goose2005

Simon Community would be the best bet

Bykobap

Bykobap wrote: »

Relationships, i was told it had to be mine baby, its not. I pampered to every need she had massages, smoothies, cooking healthy stuff, cleaning, earned a wage at childbirth etc... she never lifted a finger, had it all.

Two weeks since birth of baby i came to know its not my baby.

DNA test was done because of certain disclosure.

Hers mother came over to celebrate the birth and once I knew baby was not mine i concluded i will keep the lid on and let all of them stay in my house until her mother is gone home.

So mother went home(abroad) and the very same day i sent my ex girlfriend to womens refuge with her baby.

Monday she registered with county council housing department.

Now, my ex calls me saying that womens refuge has to throw her out because I am not violent towards her.

She has no friends, no money, nowhere to go, most certainly not coming back to my house.

Owns me a lot of money too, which i forgave.

Anyway, apart from internet apathy, what the f@@k is she ment to do?

What the f@@k am i ment to do, cut the cord, pun intended or keep assisting her.

Sorry for bad grammar and that but snapkick as Trent would say.

I am drinking heavily too since... I know i know i can't help it

Had enough of writing this post, what's the craic regarding her next step, is she going to be thrown out of womens refuge or is co council going to accommodate her needs etc..

Thanks lads

Would the father of the child not help her out?

Rightwing

What about vincents de paul and all these 'charity' crowds? why else are we paying taxes for the charity fat cats, eh ?

beechwood55

Bykobap wrote: »

No passport, who cares who done the deed.

Get her to make contact with her embassy or consular office.