Girls

boy1234

Looking for some advice on a tricky situation,Okay basically there is there girl I've been friends with now for over 2 years,and at the start we were just friends of friends but then eventually began to get extremely close,and we would talk all the time and would call each other all the time and hang out,but never got together or anything.Then at the start of the summer we agreed to be just friends with benefits but nothing else or no feelings or anything and to just have some fun,but after 4/5 times together and getting on really well and stuff we both had feelings for each other.As she lives about 25 minutes away from me and is yet to drive and is in 6th year studying and as I'm a year below,we decided we wouldn't take it any further as it wasn't the right time or place.We constantly kept in contact though and keep talking and are still just as close,but in the last 3 weeks we've ended up together twice and both admit it's not good but always end up back together and falling back into the same old pattern.I don't want to keep messing with myself and/or but don't know what to do?!Theres more details but that's the basics.Thanks

gobo99

You like her, she likes you. What's the issue?

CobraClan

So whats the problem? She only live 25 minutes from you, hardly a long distant relationship! Is the problem have to do with school? I dont see any reason for you not to be with each other if you like each other, just as long as the both of you are at the age of consent and are taken proper precautions when meeting up with each other!

boy1234

I don't know if she still likes me though or still sees me as a friend,and she has said she doesn't want anything serious as she travelling for a year this summer,so I don't know whether to cut her off,keep in contact or try see where I can take it?

boy1234

She also is in 6th year and I'm in 5th and I work weekends and she's always studying so it's awkward timing and we've always said we wouldn't want to do something stupid and rush into something to ruin it all if it was bad timing or whatever,don't know what to do.

Maximus Alexander

Sounds to me like she's been pretty clear about what she wants and you just have to decide if that arrangement is acceptable to you or if you'd prefer to end it. Only you can answer that really...

boy1234

Yeah but I don't know whether I should keep talking to her and potentially keep ending back together but nothing serious will happen in the near future or should I just end it nicely and see in the future or keep in contact,would love to be with her but can't keep hanging on to false hope.

boy1234

And the thing is now she still might like me but if I left it and when the time would be right maybe I won't feel the same or her.

gobo99

I think you're completely overthinking this. Forget about what might or might not happen in the future. Give your head a break.
In terms of work, study, age, distance between where you live, the situation is what it is. Meet up with her when you can and enjoy yourselves.