Is he interested

LegacyUser

Basically there is a guy I like who lives nearby. He is around me a lot. Always does stuff to help me. Seems to make excuses to bump into me or even calls to my house. Although he is from a different country to me - my gut instinct tells me he likes me yet he has not made a move. I don't think he has been in a relationship in a long time.

He has mentioned not wanting to be some babys daddy after his friends tried to set him up with someone with a young child. I have older kids. We are middle aged. I wonder if the kids are the problem? His friends slag him over me. I guess they see him around me a lot. I don't want to chase after him but I wonder why he is around me a lot if he is not interested? I don't need a daddy for my kids. I don' t want to ask him outstraight as I do enjoy his company.

LegacyUser

No one here can tell you whether he is interested in you or not. He obviously likes you, he is helping you and enjoys your company, but you are looking for an alterior motive because I take it you are interested in him and hope he is feeling similar. I think you should take things as they are and not push things in any direction. If you enjoy his company just do that, if you build up any expectations in you head you may be disappointed. Let things develop naturally if they are to at all. If things stay the same for another few months and you are getting bored then perhaps ask him for a coffee or whatever.

Seth Brundle

He does sound interested in you. Keeps hanging around despite the banter with his mates.
He may ne shy so dont wait for him -you suggest meeting up for a coffee sometime

canadabound1

Life's too short, ask him out for coffee. He seems keen to be in your presence all the time, go for it, nothing to lose