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Confused about BF

  • 31-10-2016 01:50PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,006 ✭✭✭✭


    Okay..so this is a bit of a weird one...

    My boyfriend has a very close friend(who has a gf), grand, fine, all good. However...a couple of weeks ago they went to stag and they were sharing a room and my bf told me that he woke up to find his friend on top of him. My bf was like..eh get off me and apparently it was a bit awkward the next day but his friend explained that he was drunk and thought he was his girlfriend next to him and then they just ended up laughing about it.

    I was recently at a house gathering and my bf and his friend were there and some people didn't know me and at one stage someone came up to me and asked if my bf and the guy he was with were a couple. When i said no - "one of them is my boyfriend "- she was embarrassed and was like - oh! the other guy is obviously gay etc....

    This wasn't the only person at the party who thought this! now from what I could see my bf and his buddy were just talking and having fun ...but it seemed other people were seeing something I wasn't. Another lady said to me that that my bfs friend "is clearly gay and wants your bf" - i was totally taken a back by all of this needless to say and found it very odd.

    I am now brutally confused - my boyfriend was joking to me about it saying it isn't the first time they have been mistaken for a gay couple! I laughed along...but in the back of my mind...i was thinking....what does that really mean.....

    What do I do? do I do anything? Should I be worried....

    I'm officially freaked. And now I can't get the image of my bf and this guy getting it on out of my head and him coming out and telling me he is gay!


Comments

  • #2
    leggo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    I don't think you've anything to be worried about. It would be odd for your boyfriend to tell you the story about waking up with your man on top of him if there was something going on. Maybe the other guy is gay and into your boyfriend, but your bf doesn't see it, but that's not really your business as your bf isn't gay so it won't ever be a factor. Don't overthink it and stress yourself out.


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