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Unsure what to do

  • 26-10-2016 6:30pm
    #1
    david3542
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭


    Hi all, im unsure what to do in my current situation, I have been seeing this girl for nearly three years now, either was good except for stupid little arguments. However recently things have changed anytime there is something wrong it always seems to be my fault and there to make me feel ****ty. we don't see each other as much, and the sex in the relationship is rare. I am an easy going person so when there is a fight i take the back step and just say sorry and agree although everything is being put on me and i just don't know what to do? When times are god they're great i really enjoy them, and when times are bad i just try to remember the good times. Can anyone relate to me or offer me advice on what to do in this relationship?
    Thanks.


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  • #2
    Airyfairy12
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,405 ✭✭✭Airyfairy12


    She could be just taking you for granted a little bit. If it was me in your situation id talk to her and tell her exactly how I feel then id tell her I need to take a break from the relationship, then go do your own thing for a week or two, decide what you want, your happiness should be your number one priority, you cant force anyone to be or act in anyway that you want them too, you just need to focus on yourself. If she has genuine reasons for acting the way she is.. like you did something hurtful/annoying or she's stressed out because of something then you can work on that together... if theres no good reason for her behaviour then step back from the relationship for awhile and see how things develop. If her attitude doesnt change or she pulls back more than you/doesnt reach out then you have your answer and you need to move on. Try to build a life for yourself outside of your girlfriend, she shouldnt be your whole world.


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