Am I being paranoid?

MRnotlob606

I am 21 years old and student and recently I entered into a relationship for the first time. This semester there was an erasmus student who came into my class. On the first day I introduced myself to her as everyone else did. I talked to her just to make her feel welcome. But I am getting the impression she may love me?

Firstly I was talking about going somewhere with my friends and she asked if she could come, so I said yes. Secondly, she sits beside me in every class, like right beside me. She just sent me asking me if I was going to a party (one of our classmates is having a party) and she said maybe we could walk there together and sent a winky face. Am I being paranoid. I hope she is just being friendly, but I am not really good at noticing when some likes me. I don't want to make my girlfriend Jealous. What would you do if you were in my situation? I don't want to offend anybody. Is there a problem if I walk there with her?

Need help

Wesser

Maybe she is just grateful to have a friendly face and someone she knows?
Or maybe she fancies you?
Probably not in love with you yet.
Paranoia indicates that you some kind of fear of the situation, what is it that you are worried is going to happen?
I would just roll with it and be friendly but be aware that if she fancies you you make it clear that you are already in a relationship.....

MRnotlob606

Wesser wrote: »

Maybe she is just grateful to have a friendly face and someone she knows?
Or maybe she fancies you?
Probably not in love with you yet.
Paranoia indicates that you some kind of fear of the situation, what is it that you are worried is going to happen?
I would just roll with it and be friendly but be aware that if she fancies you you make it clear that you are already in a relationship.....

Its just some other students were saying it that she likes me.

Maybe she needs a pal. Be that pal, but make sure she knows about the girlfriend. It's really that simple.

And I doubt she loves you, at most she might fancy you a bit. Let's not lose the run of ourselves here :P

MRnotlob606

haha I don't know I am not good at noticing these things.

LegacyUser

That's gas..guys really don't have confidence issues do they. No she doesn't love you, but from sounds of it likes you, simply mention your girlfriend casually a few times and she won't continue asking you to things. No big deal.