confronted by pof girl in pub

Eircom_Sucks

long story short i havnt been on pof in 6 months ( its useless ) anyway , some girl came up to me in the pub ( not a local pub ) and asked me why i called her fat online ( i prob did do this , not proud ) but this is minimum 6 months ago , would you ever be so petty as to come up to somebody over something so trivial as a name calling ?

i never met her in person so i was sort of shocked at the juvenile behaviour ( not that name calling isnt juvenile but it was online not in person )

the_pen_turner

She was right. Horrible thing to say to her. Your lucky she didn't give you a slap

bee06

You think confronting someone about being a d*ck is juvenile but calling someone fat is fine? Maybe you should take a look at your own behaviour first.

Fakediamond

She was brave, you were the coward. And foolish, Ireland is a small place, you'd want to be more careful about what you say online, you never know when it will come back to bite you, like this incident.

Fair play to her
You were very brave/cruel behind your keyboard, but a coward in reality
I think this person has given you a very good lesson for free
But Your post sounds like you haven't learnt a thing
This was your chance to try undo a wrong and possibly bring some closure, but this has gone way over your head
You are a bully

I have to laugh when you say pof is useless. You sound like such a charmer

GreatDefector

Lucky for her there are plenty of fish out there

She's dodged a right catch

She's the petty one?

Right.

Sarn

That was your chance to take responsibility for your actions and apologise. The world would be a much better place if we considered the negative effects that our actions can have on others before making them.

B.A._Baracus

I am not a fan of the word trolling.. But it's apt for this.

Esel

Did you apologise?

(Can't see how this is a relationship issue...)

leggo

So POF didn't work out then, no?

Senna

What is POF?

Armchair Andy

Did you show any hint of remorse OP? Any way of even now rectifying it or apologising?

CPTM

Senna wrote:

What is POF?

Plenty of fish. Internet dating site.

Armchair Andy

Armchair Andy wrote: »

Did you show any hint of remorse OP? Any way of even now rectifying it or apologising?

If he did it would have been a cowardly lie, due to the very nature of the original post

ChikiChiki

She was dead right to be honest. Don't see how you think she was wrong. Grow up man and dont be throwing personal insults at people from behind a keyboard. Poor girl was likely really hurt by that comment and her confidence really damaged.

Armchair Andy

Yeah but even at this late stage and realising from some of the comments he's received here, the ball is in his Court still. He still can do something for his awful treatment of this girl. That's if he's a good human being.




Just seen your username Andy. Get off that chair it's mine!!

Armchair Andy

Armchair Andy wrote: »

Yeah but even at this late stage and realising from some of the comments he's received here, the ball is in his Court still. He still can do something for his awful treatment of this girl. That's if he's a good human being.

I completey agree. Let's hope

Nice chair it is

Taltos

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