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Another friend dilemna

  • 18-09-2016 06:12PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    So another so called friend dilemna who is also my ex housemate.
    A group of us went out last night and her and my other old hsemate plus the new housemate was out.

    So I know this so called friend is louder than me and I am quieter but she was a total bitch last night.

    She was singing out loud with her hand to her mouth blah,blah,blah to the new housemate.This was directed at me.
    She has also bitched to me saying other one too chatty but not when out.

    Today this friend asked me for lunch.Wtf!!
    I know all she wanted was a lift to cafe and then shopping centre so she could do her food shopping.I've done this far too many times for her.

    She is moving county now so never again but definitely a user.

    I wanted to text back why you want to.go with me.I don't talk but I kept that to myself. No one else wanted to I'd imagine.
    She is something else really.Some women are v cruel and no need for it.

    I'm not that quiet but quiet in she knows I would not say anything.

    What would ye do in this situation?


Comments

  • #2
    Sapphire
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 390 ✭✭Sapphire


    Well, it sounds like you have the measure of her. Someone like that, there is no point in calling them out on it after the fact - she will only show your texts to mutual friends and put her own spin on it making you the bad guy.

    Let her off, but never do her a favour again. No more lifts, and turn down coffees. She's not a friend worth having in your life.


  • #3
    Dial Hard
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,510 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Sapphire wrote:
    Well, it sounds like you have the measure of her.

    You got more sense out of the post than I did, so.
    User1255 wrote:
    She was singing out loud with her hand to her mouth blah,blah,blah to the new housemate.This was directed at me.

    I have absolutely no idea what this even means. The girl you don't like was singing at you?

    I'm really confused by your entire post, tbh.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks Sapphire, So I won't say a word to anyone about it. You're right. She would twist it.


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    She asked me to drive her to a different county the other.Well she can f&*k right off....
    She also asked another favour which she could have easily done herself all wk...
    I told her no and then text me again tonight about it! Nope,no way, No more favours from me....
    I was such a fool all these years.
    Thankfully I did sometimes make excuses.I really think she is a user and sees me as a soft touch...


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