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Sad Stuff

  • 04-09-2016 8:03pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭


    I love The Walking Dead and cant wait for the next season but it really is a depressing show. Why do we enjoy watching sad and tragic movies, tv or listening to sad music?

    Is it because we empathise or sympathise with the characters? We hope that things turn out alright in the end? We like to see things that are worse than our own situations? Or just because we see a reality in the characters and can reflect or relate to that?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,561 ✭✭✭Duff


    Sure ya can't bate a good cry.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,797 ✭✭✭Sir Osis of Liver.


    We enjoy others suffering.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    Duff wrote: »
    Sure ya can't bate a good cry.

    Ye, I suppose you feel a bit of a release. I dont cry watching The Walking Dead, well..maybe when (edit; someone) died :( So technically, sometimes we enjoy being sad or well I mean, we need to be sometimes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 990 ✭✭✭Ted111




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭Barry Badrinath


    Olishi4 wrote: »
    Ye, I suppose you feel a bit of a release. I dont cry watching The Walking Dead, well..maybe when :( So technically, sometimes we enjoy being sad or well I mean, we need to be sometimes.


    Fcuking spoliers Olishi!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4



    Fcuking spoliers Olishi!

    Oops! Did the spoiler make you sad though? See..I was doing you a favour :p ah no sorry! :/ I'll edit it!


  • Posts: 26,052 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    The Walking Dead isn't a realistic enough scenario to make me cry, but I get upset over well-acted, plausible stuff at times.

    I usually don't watch anything too downbeat for that reason, I just don't have the stomach for emotionally challenging themes these days. I can't listen to sad songs most of the time, I react too intensely and they can dampen my mood.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    I think its because sad dramatic things are interesting to watch and hear about, like we are interested in tragedies in the news, but with tv I think people especially like tragedies and crimes because its people's suffering but we can watch it without guilt of finding it interesting cause we know that nobody is actually suffering


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    Ted111 wrote: »

    I've only just noticed, he was playing Lemmy in that clip :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭Barry Badrinath


    Olishi4 wrote: »
    Ye, I suppose you feel a bit of a release. I dont cry watching The Walking Dead, well..maybe when (edit; someone) died :( So technically, sometimes we enjoy being sad or well I mean, we need to be sometimes.

    Ah its ok.

    Im always sad anyway :(


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,845 ✭✭✭timthumbni


    Candie wrote: »
    The Walking Dead isn't a realistic enough scenario to make me cry, but I get upset over well-acted, plausible stuff at times.

    What do you mean not realistic enough? I thought the walking dead was supposed to be based on a true story.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    Ah its ok.

    Im always sad anyway :(

    :(

    You better edit your one now or else you'll be the spoiler!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,285 ✭✭✭Summer wind


    Turn them on, turn them on
    Turn on those sad songs
    When all hope is gone
    Why don't you tune in and turn them on

    If someone else is suffering enough to write it down
    When every single word makes sense
    Then it's easier to have those songs around
    The kick inside is in the line that finally gets to you
    And it feels so good to hurt so bad
    And suffer just enough to sing the blues

    So turn them on
    Turn on those sad songs


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,561 ✭✭✭Duff


    Nothing makes me cry more than Arnie being lowered into the molten metal in Terminator 2 while giving the thumbs up. :(


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    Duff wrote: »
    Nothing makes me cry more than Arnie being lowered into the molten metal in Terminator 2 while giving the thumbs up. :(

    I know, me too? And he's a robot ffs?? :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,647 ✭✭✭lazybones32


    I think one of the best selling singles in Ireland was "only a woman" by Mary Black and someone else - 'tis a bittersweet song. Titanic, and the Dion song that went with it, wouldn't have been as successful if Jack lived...what does that tell you?

    I like TWD to see people and zombies get killed, not because it makes me sad. It makes me wonder why violent shows are the most popular but we supposedly reject violence. Kinda hypocritical.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    I think one of the best selling singles in Ireland was "only a woman" by Mary Black and someone else - 'tis a bittersweet song. Titanic, and the Dion song that went with it, wouldn't have been as successful if Jack lived...what does that tell you?

    I like TWD to see people and zombies get killed, not because it makes me sad. It makes me wonder why violent shows are the most popular but we supposedly reject violence. Kinda hypocritical.

    Not really.nobody is getting hurt in the shows.. Why would it mean we should condone violence towards real people just cause we like to see it on tv with actors doing it


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,647 ✭✭✭lazybones32


    wakka12 wrote: »
    Not really.nobody is getting hurt in the shows.. Why would it mean we should condone violence towards real people just cause we like to see it on tv with actors doing it

    But the violence obviously appeals to something within people and makes it more interesting but when similar things happen in reality, they are horrific.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 28,398 ✭✭✭✭Turtyturd


    'Where's Wallace String?'

    Don't get me started on Dookie.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,647 ✭✭✭lazybones32


    Olishi4 wrote: »
    I know, me too? And he's a robot ffs?? :)

    FFS! He's not a robot..."I AM A CYBERNETIC ORGANISM, LIVING TISSUE OVER A METAL ENDOSKELETON".


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,706 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Hold the door



    *sobs*


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,647 ✭✭✭lazybones32


    Fry's dog.


    "If it takes forever...."


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    FFS! He's not a robot..."I AM A CYBERNETIC ORGANISM, LIVING TISSUE OVER A METAL ENDOSKELETON".

    He may as well be human then! Makes me feel better about being emotionally invested in the character but also a bit worried :/


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner


    "I cherish the memories of a question my grandson asked me the other day, when he said "Grandpa, were you a hero in the war?" Grandpa said, "No... but I served in a company of heroes".


    Sob.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,275 ✭✭✭Your Face


    Its complete pish.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,423 ✭✭✭✭Outlaw Pete


    Not a fan and Andrew Lincoln will always be Egg to me you bastards.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,434 ✭✭✭Robsweezie


    Fcuking spoliers Olishi!


    Yeah but you quoted it and made it worse, drawing attention to it. Then he went back and changed his post to remove said spoiler, but you quoted his original post so the spoiler remains In your post quoting his...


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭Barry Badrinath


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    Yeah but you quoted it and made it worse, drawing attention to it. Then he went back and changed his post to remove said spoiler, but you quoted his original post so the spoiler remains In your post quoting his...

    Damn it Rob!

    Why didnt you tell me earlier?! Ya bollox its all yout fault. :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    Robsweezie wrote: »
    Yeah but you quoted it and made it worse, drawing attention to it. Then he went back and changed his post to remove said spoiler, but you quoted his original post so the spoiler remains In your post quoting his...

    Hers! See you get things wrong too Rob :)


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,460 ✭✭✭Barry Badrinath


    Olishi4 wrote: »
    Hers! See you get things wrong too Rob :)

    You tell him Olishi!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,194 ✭✭✭foxy farmer


    Saw a film recently Eden Lake. A gritty british horror. Not an armageddon /apocalypse type of big budget film but something that is quite plausible considering the type of sadistic things we hear about today. I was rooting for the heroine the whole time and shocked at the type sick things that were done. There's a sick twist at the end that made it all the more saddening. One of the best horror films i ever watched.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,489 ✭✭✭Yamanoto


    TWD is tragic alright.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,813 ✭✭✭Noveight




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,455 ✭✭✭maudgonner




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 654 ✭✭✭spud82


    maudgonner wrote: »


    Every bloody time :(:(:(


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    I never saw The Champ but now I'm thinking about Kes :(


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,500 ✭✭✭✭DEFTLEFTHAND


    I always felt sad for Christopher in the Sopranos, he spent his whole life trying to be the perfect wiseguy.

    In the end he was only a weak drug addicted bastard.


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