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Separation Support

  • 23-08-2016 9:12am
    #1
    Rengew
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12 ✭


    Bit of a background.....I was married for 8 years and have been seperated since February 2016. I have extremem highs and extremem lows like normal I would imagine. He makes a good salary but isn't great at managing money so he can only pay a small portion for maintenance (for which I am greatful). I work part time and will be applying for FIS next month. Kids are with me for 4 days a week currently but will be increasing to 5 days next month. Money is tight and I am not very happy in my job either. I won't leave as that is silly as I need some stability.

    So my question..... is there any seperation support provided. I have been to councelling but didn't really see that it helped. I don't feel depressed but head aches have been increasing due to stress and I feel that my patience is very thin.

    Trying to take up a hobby but that costs money too. I was hoping to find people in the same situation to talk to.

    Thanks


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  • #2
    lostsoul01
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31 ✭lostsoul01


    There are lots of online support groups available, some on favebook. Local running clubs are always an option, they're not expensive and excercise is a great way to clear your mind of negative thoughts and feelings. I have been in your position, you need to apply for FIS immediately and you will get backdated if applicable. I can assure you things do get better, take time for yourself.. Running was my tonic and I made good friends along the way who have supported me in the last two and half years.. If you need to chat pm me anytime as I know how overwhelming it all is at the beginning. Good luck


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