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What to do. Really, really like this guy.

  • 30-07-2016 2:13pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I recently became friends with a guy and we are both easy going and generally get along with everyone, since we first got to know each other we've been chatting quite a bit via text and I've started to really like him.

    I think he likes me but I don't know, then I think maybe he doesn't and is just being friendly. I dunno what to do at all.

    I could tell him that I like him, but if he doesn't feel the same, it would be awkward because we have to see each other every day for the next while and it could become awkward for our group.

    I haven't liked a guy this much in absolutely ages, and he is just one of those rare guys that's so hard to find and are snapped up. I can honestly not think of one negative or bad thing about him, at all. I know he's not perfect, no one is, but he as close as perfect as one can be.

    The more I talk to him (via text/in person) the more I like him. I just don't know what to do and would appreciate any advice at all.


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    I'd say "just tell him, follow your heart" etc, but I get it. It's awkward. There's never really an ideal moment and so on.

    Fortunately, you're Irish (aren't you?)! So there's a time-honoured tradition for this: get locked with him! And if you're both mad about each other and hang around together while drunk, something will almost definitely happen. If it doesn't then he's probably not that into you and you can move on with your life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,555 ✭✭✭Augme


    Just ask him out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    It's only awkward if ye make it so. I asked a girl who I know out before and she said she never thought of me that way but she was flattered. She's now one of my best friends and I value that much more. We said we wouldn't make it awkward and we didn't. Take a chance, what's the worst that can happen


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,695 ✭✭✭December2012


    Is he single?

    If he is arrange to meet up, and then say "great, it's a date!" And you'll have your answer


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