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break up woes

  • 18-07-2016 4:11pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Guys,
    Going Anon for this.
    I was seeing a girl for 5 months things were going along ok ish but she messed it up big time which made me finish with her now I'm wondering if I did the right thing.

    Well deep down I guess I know I did maybe this post is from the heartache and loneliness happening its been a week.

    She has bi-polar disorder and uses that to excuse away any "mistakes" last week she had her bag open and inside was scales and about 5 bags of cocaine.
    She said she was minding them for her cousin I just packed my bags and left.
    No proper goodbye, nothing she smokes weed all day long too, I don't but I didn't judge her about it except where she cant get out of bed for depression to bring her daughter to school.
    Its so bad like 50 odd days since September she has meetings with the school liaison people but they don't know she has bi polar.

    At the start I was swallowing it all having been hurt before I was very cautious but she was nice.
    I done some research online about bi-polar and it is a common thing that anyone who suffers with it makes rash and bad decisions.

    But at what point do you draw the line? I don't want to live like an extra in love hate!!

    There were other things happening too like her ex up to a month in they were still texting until I told her I had a problem with it. It wasn't just hey how are you messages not intimate stuff either but things like "I love you" and she wrote back I love you too. when I asked her she said it was her daughter who is 6. I didn't believe it but then when she blocked him I got over it.

    I guess there were signs it wasn't going to work.
    I'm just unsure if it was the bipolar and should I have been so judgemental in leaving so suddenly?


Comments

  • #2
    BetsyEllen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,360 ✭✭✭BetsyEllen


    Erm, you're seriously questioning your decision?

    Run as far from her as fast as you bloody can, keep going and never look back.


  • #3
    stargazer 68
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,165 ✭✭✭stargazer 68


    Was I right? wrote: »
    things were going along ok ish
    but she messed it up big time

    inside was scales and about 5 bags of cocaine.

    she smokes weed all day long too,
    Its so bad like 50 odd days since September she has meetings with the school liaison people but they don't know she has bi polar.

    her ex up to a month in they were still texting until I told her I had a problem with it. It wasn't just hey how are you messages not intimate stuff either but things like "I love you" and she wrote back I love you too. when I asked her she said it was her daughter who is 6. I didn't believe it but then when she blocked him I got over it.

    ?

    Seriously Op - you have had a lucky escape. You have drawn the line now delete her number and move on


  • #4
    fineso.mom
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,093 ✭✭✭fineso.mom


    OP you absolutely made the right decision and you will be fine. But if she has a six year old child and is smoking weed all day and leaving cocaine in her bag, then that little girl is vulnerable. If she has already missed a lot of school its possible the school has contacted Tusla but if not I think you should. That's no way for a 6yr old to live.


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