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Best friend

  • 17-07-2016 6:41pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I really ****ing miss my best friend. We fell out last year and haven't spoken since. It was something stupid and I just really miss her. How do you get past missing someone? I'm always wondering if she misses me.


Comments

  • #2
    Leogirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 455 ✭✭Leogirl


    This happened to me+ I wish I had the courage to contact her+try to make up. I miss her a lot. If it's possible, try to get in touch with her.


  • #3
    Leogirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 455 ✭✭Leogirl


    This happened to me+ I wish I had the courage to contact her+try to make up. I miss her a lot. If it's possible, try to get in touch with her.


  • #4
    Addle
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,812 ✭✭✭Addle


    I've seen people fall out and not communicate for longer than a year.
    Then all of a sudden, someone breaks, communication recommences and they're best mates again.
    It's so intense, it's unhealthy IMO.

    Read this yesterday and it makes a case for moving on.

    http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/life/is-it-time-to-downsize-your-friends/


  • #5
    AnnaStezia
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 289 ✭✭AnnaStezia


    Make a serious effort to deal with it.

    If anything ever happened to your friend you would have a lifetime of painful regret if you did not try to patch it up.


  • #6
    Rachiee
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 880 ✭✭✭Rachiee


    If its over sonething silly why not contact them and say that you wish you hadnt fallen out and you miss them. Break the ice and try meet up again. If its something you cant get passed the only way to stop missing them is to replace what it is about them that you miss. try find new friends. Its hard to forge strong friendships as an adult so a club or team with a common goal would be the best way.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I fell out with a close friend recently also. It sucks, I know how you feel. I deleted photos of us the last day and I felt like I broke up with them, I was so sad!

    I would suggest you try and patch things up. It's always worth a try, because once you've cooled down and had time to think, you both might look at things differently. I tried to work things out with my friend but it really didn't go well, we ended up arguing over the same stuff and we really were getting no where so I had to accept that we aren't going to be friends in the future and although it hurts I can get over it.

    One tip if you are trying to sort it out, don't do it drunk. I dunno if you drink or anything haha but sending a drunk msg is not going to look great to them!!


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