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New job: Weird atmosphere and boss has me doing all the work

  • 14-07-2016 10:59pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8


    New job: Boss has me doing all the work and Work Atmosphere is weird
    I am 8 days into a part time job. My new boss has me working really hard. I had a work appraisal today which didn't go well. A junior co-worker put in lots of lots of complaints that sound bad but are silly. There are lots of juniors here but the Supervisor has not trained them up or hired anyone with training. I like the others except one very loud, lazy woman who has been in the same junior role for 20 years and not learned any new skills. I have quite a bit of training so I have to do all the work.

    Today, she moaned like a woman giving birth for 3-4 hours while getting the 19 year old to rub cream onto her back in the middle of the workplace. Then when nobody was looking started looking at photos while continuing to loudly moan. Herself and the boss have weird conversations at work about knickers and bitching about people I have never met. The boss said the bad atmosphere is due to me. I say nothing but I find the setup weird. Naturally, I don't want to be doing all the work.

    How should I react to this situation?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,078 ✭✭✭questionmark?


    Have you considered not drinking soo much and getting to know the difference between reality and fantasy?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,926 ✭✭✭Reati



    How should I react to this situation?

    Create a new account and go straight onto After Hours for advice?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 angelhair144


    This is the first permanent job I have had in 2 years. I have been a temporary worker all the time. I want to make this work but its a bit weird.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭FizzleSticks


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 26,658 ✭✭✭✭OldMrBrennan83


    This post has been deleted.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 angelhair144


    I just think that they are not giving me a chance to read the Standard Operating Practices and having me do the work while the boss and lazy co-worker have weird chats and make go on their phones. Then they watch everything I do while doing nothing themselves. Today, I was asked do I go on my phone at work when I don't and boss and co-worker are always on their phones. I just think its a double standard.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,809 ✭✭✭Speedwell


    As in any situation where other people at work are doing things to bully and take advantage of you, keep a private notebook (not in your desk drawer, either) detailing the incidents that concern you... names, dates, times, what they said and did, what you said and did, how you felt about it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 990 ✭✭✭Ted111


    Have you been asked to rub cream onto any co-worker so far?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 angelhair144


    I can't figure who is the problem here or who is controlling things: the Manager or the Junior Co-worker? What do you think?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,809 ✭✭✭Speedwell


    I can't figure who is the problem here or who is controlling things: the Manager or the Junior Co-worker? What do you think?

    I think it's not your concern to try to figure out who's controlling things when you are so new and the work environment is that toxic. You should go to your own manager and follow the chain of command; that's what would happen in a sane office with standard procedures.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 9,622 ✭✭✭Ruu


    Do you work on the set of a porn film? Get used to the moaning and cleaning up.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,275 ✭✭✭Your Face


    Can I come to work with you someday OP?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 312 ✭✭Boater123


    No offence to after hours, a great place for the craic, but OP if you want to be taken seriously, post in work and jobs.

    OP if you too are up for the craic, then let the games begin, especially about the MILF having cream rubbed in by a 19 year old and moaning loudly. Please stick the job out some more and dish the dirt some more.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,166 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    Is you a fluffer?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,080 ✭✭✭Vic_08


    New job: Boss has me doing all the work and Work Atmosphere is weird
    I am 8 days into a part time job. My new boss has me working really hard. I had a work appraisal today which didn't go well. A junior co-worker put in lots of lots of complaints that sound bad but are silly. There are lots of juniors here but the Supervisor has not trained them up or hired anyone with training. I like the others except one very loud, lazy woman who has been in the same junior role for 20 years and not learned any new skills. I have quite a bit of training so I have to do all the work.

    Today, she moaned like a woman giving birth for 3-4 hours while getting the 19 year old to rub cream onto her back in the middle of the workplace. Then when nobody was looking started looking at photos while continuing to loudly moan. Herself and the boss have weird conversations at work about knickers and bitching about people I have never met. The boss said the bad atmosphere is due to me. I say nothing but I find the setup weird. Naturally, I don't want to be doing all the work.

    How should I react to this situation?

    Hide video cameras in office, download footage, post here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8 angelhair144


    One gets more advice in After Hours. I will start keeping a notebook on what goes on as I will need to for talking to my manager in the future.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,172 ✭✭✭FizzleSticks


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,576 ✭✭✭Stigura


    O ..... No. Fcuk this. I can't be bothered! :rolleyes:


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Rat poison OP.

    Start slipping small quantities into their tea and lunch.

    Pretty soon you'll be running the show. Then burn the place down and blast it with piss to put it out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,158 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    New job: Boss has me doing all the work and Work Atmosphere is weird
    I am 8 days into a part time job. My new boss has me working really hard. I had a work appraisal today which didn't go well. A junior co-worker put in lots of lots of complaints that sound bad but are silly. There are lots of juniors here but the Supervisor has not trained them up or hired anyone with training. I like the others except one very loud, lazy woman who has been in the same junior role for 20 years and not learned any new skills. I have quite a bit of training so I have to do all the work.

    Today, she moaned like a woman giving birth for 3-4 hours while getting the 19 year old to rub cream onto her back in the middle of the workplace. Then when nobody was looking started looking at photos while continuing to loudly moan. Herself and the boss have weird conversations at work about knickers and bitching about people I have never met. The boss said the bad atmosphere is due to me. I say nothing but I find the setup weird. Naturally, I don't want to be doing all the work.

    How should I react to this situation?


    An appraisal? After 8 days?

    You can tell someone learned no skills in 20 years?

    Hahahaha

    Keep on with the creative writing course op

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    8 days in, co-workers are making complaints about you, they've already done an appraisal and management are scrutinising your every move? You shouldn't even really be doing any real work for somewhere between 2 weeks and 3 months while you get yourself up to speed.

    Either there's something really wrong with you (in which case they shouldn't have hired you), or it's just a completely fncked up place to work.

    Just quit already.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,022 ✭✭✭jamesbere


    Just burn the place down and be done with it


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,638 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Fr_Dougal wrote: »
    Is you a fluffer?


    a dying trade apparently since the invention of viagra. Its such a shame to see all the old trades dying out.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,744 ✭✭✭diomed


    Are you an airline pilot?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,434 ✭✭✭Robsweezie


    diomed wrote:
    Are you an airline pilot?


    Or, is this in fact a pilot for a new channel 4 comedy?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 81,220 ✭✭✭✭biko


    How should I react to this situation?
    Smear faeces all over the walls.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,708 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Mod:

    You already have a thread in Work Problems.

    Don't post in AH to reach a wider audience.


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