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The L Word, and no not the programme

  • 07-06-2016 6:33pm
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 252 ✭✭


    A guy asked me to be his girlfriend after a few weeks of dating. I said yes and I'm delighted. I really like this guy. After years of being in abusive and disastrous relationships, it feels good to have someone appreachiate me for once. I really like this guy, as far to say, I think I might love him. We haven't spoken about it although we've shown each other various ways that we like each other loads, non sexual as well. But I'm not sure how to bring it up. I keep having to stop myself from saying "love you" when I hug him or snuggle up to him without feeling I'm putting him in an awkward position.

    Does anyone know a good, easy and fun way to approach the topic? We are both giddy and hyper so even if I can make a light joke out of it would probably help


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,555 ✭✭✭Augme


    How long have you's been going out for?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 252 ✭✭GuessWhoEh


    Started dating late March, set up on a blind date and clicked straight away. Asked me to be his girlfriend on Saturday night


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,555 ✭✭✭Augme


    Yea I definitely wouldn't be dropping the L word if you just officially became a couple on Saturday.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,195 ✭✭✭irish son


    If you feel like saying it say it, us people here online don't know what your relationship is like, they all move at different paces. Who are other people to tell you the correct time to say "I love you" in your relationship, do what you think feels right, maybe he feels the same and like you is afraid to say because its supposedly to early.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,052 ✭✭✭KikiDee


    I would usually say if you feel it, say it. However, you are only officially a couple less than a week and you don't know this guy may take it. Just something to bear in mind.


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