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Relationship anxiety

  • 15-05-2016 9:53pm
    #1
    Emily9031
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4 ✭


    So I'm recently seeing a guy. He's not my usual type but I've given him a chance and I'm getting to like him. I've been on six dates with him. All have went well and he's followed up straight away for the next date. It's just now after the last dare he didn't arrange when I'm meeting him next. I know there is another one in the cards but I can't help being anxious that I don't know when exactly I'm meeting him. Is this normal to feel like this or do I have relationship anxiety? Is it ok for me at this stage to ask him to meet up with me or should I always leave the ball in the mans court? Should I explain to him that I prefer it when he organised the next date. Thanks ðŸ˜


Comments

  • #2
    tomwaterford
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,768 ✭✭✭✭tomwaterford


    Ask him...simple as


  • #3
    woodchuck
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,411 ✭✭✭✭woodchuck


    It's completely unfair to expect him to arrange every date at this stage. If you want to see him again, suggest a time/place.


  • #4
    Sinister Kid
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,503 ✭✭✭Sinister Kid


    He may be leaving the ball in your court since he arranged the 6 previous dates, it could be his way of seeing if you're really interested.


  • #5
    Meauldsegosha
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,607 ✭✭✭Meauldsegosha


    I'd say he's wondering if you interested in him as you are leaving it up to him to organise everything.

    You should organise the next date. It's not the mans job to always do this.


  • #6
    silverbolt
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 362 ✭✭silverbolt


    just ask him to meet up, dont you think after him organsiing the last 6 that its about time you did something?


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  • #7
    ManOfMystery
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,394 ✭✭✭ManOfMystery


    Ring him and arrange something. TBH, if I went on more than 5 dates with a girl and I was the one constantly arranging them, I'd be questioning if she was interested at all or just passing her time. Be proactive and show him you're into him.


  • #8
    KikiDee
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,052 ✭✭✭KikiDee


    I understand where you're coming from OP. I get anxious when I'm not sure of what's going on with things but I've learned that if you don't know what's going on, make a decision yourself. Like everyone else, I'd recommend you get in touch with him and sort something out. When life hands you lemons, you have to ask for the tequila to go with it :)


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