meeting people

ydnas

I need to have a bit of a rant,WERE in Dublin are all the half decent nice tall men in their 40s. I go on dating site and as soon as you want to send a message their looking for money but which one do I pay and then you get reply's from men that are totally not my type. If i do pay the fee then you get very basic messages only for it not to go any further or I might get a date and that is it you never hear from that man again. If you go to social groups very rarely is there a man i would date or who wold date me . I am nothing special so for the few single decent men the right height and age I way down the line with far too much competition The ratio of nice tall men in there 40s compared to women is very bad.

tomwaterford

Do people not get shorter as they get older?

Neon_Lights

ydnas wrote: »

I need to have a bit of a rant,WERE in Dublin are all the half decent nice tall men in their 40s. I go on dating site and as soon as you want to send a message their looking for money but which one do I pay and then you get reply's from men that are totally not my type. If i do pay the fee then you get very basic messages only for it not to go any further or I might get a date and that is it you never hear from that man again. If you go to social groups very rarely is there a man i would date or who wold date me . I am nothing special so for the few single decent men the right height and age I way down the line with far too much competition The ratio of nice tall men in there 40s compared to women is very bad.

Damn they should have stuck us between two tractors in order to stretch us so we can meet your superficial needs, I'm terribly apologetic the irish gene pool let you down

DontThankMe

You need to look outside Dublin, try looking out in the shticks for a tall handsome farmer plenty of those about. They might also have some land and money that could be yours if you let him put a ring on your finger.

Firewalkwithme

How many threads do you need on this?

RobbingBandit

In before tall men don't need dating sites only dwarfish do.

Into The Blue

Go to sinnotts or kielys during a big match..

Shawn Michaels

Go to House on Lesson St

Hande hoche!

RobbingBandit wrote: »

In before tall men don't need dating sites only dwarfish do.

Puny manlets...

stoplooklisten

Try the tall man clothes store, I think it's on the quays, hang round there

Alf Stewart.

ASL OP?

not yet

https://youtu.be/4qJXTR7SyBQ



Have a word with Imelda, she seems to know where to look...

MilesMorales1

RobbingBandit wrote: »

In before tall men don't need dating sites only dwarfish do.

Thats not true, I'm very tall and I'm still lonely and bitter.

Rachiee

Im nothing special but I absolutely insist on having a tall man

Shint0

ydnas wrote: »

as soon as you want to send a message their looking for money

Them webcams do be expensive.

seamus

The number of single people in their 40s is a small enough pool without restricting it only to the attractive ones.

You've probably noticed, but people tend to become less attractive as they age.

Beggars can't be choosers.

MilesMorales1

seamus wrote: »

The number of single people in their 40s is a small enough pool without restricting it only to the attractive ones.

You've probably noticed, but people tend to become less attractive as they age.

Beggars can't be choosers.

Bruce Forsyth disagrees with you.

jester77

ydnas wrote: »

I need to have a bit of a rant,WERE in Dublin are all the half decent nice tall men in their 40s. I go on dating site and as soon as you want to send a message their looking for money but which one do I pay and then you get reply's from men that are totally not my type. If i do pay the fee then you get very basic messages only for it not to go any further or I might get a date and that is it you never hear from that man again. If you go to social groups very rarely is there a man i would date or who wold date me . I am nothing special so for the few single decent men the right height and age I way down the line with far too much competition The ratio of nice tall men in there 40s compared to women is very bad.

Define tall? If you are looking for men that are over 1,90 then your pool is going to be small, and then to narrow that down to nice single men in their 40's in Dublin you are looking at a very small pool.

You will be competing with the 20-something and 30-something women for these type of guys. Not trying to offend, but your post has a hint of desperation about it, most men would run from that. You should re-evaluate your criteria a little.

swapple

If you're paying a fee for sex then you should be able to find what you're looking for. Is OP really tall too? Is that why there's an emphasis on height?

snubbleste

Have you tried a mens shop? or failing that Holland?

jamesbere

jester77 wrote: »

Define tall? If you are looking for men that are over 1,90 then your pool is going to be small, and then to narrow that down to nice single men in their 40's in Dublin you are looking at a very small pool.

You will be competing with the 20-something and 30-something women for these type of guys. Not trying to offend, but your post has a hint of desperation about it, most men would run from that. You should re-evaluate your criteria a little.

We deal in feet in this country.

briany

jamesbere wrote: »

We deal in feet in this country.

Regarding metric and imperial, we tend to have a foot in both camps.

Donald Trump

ydnas wrote: »

I need to have a bit of a rant,WERE in Dublin are all the half decent nice tall men in their 40s. I go on dating site and as soon as you want to send a message their looking for money but which one do I pay and then you get reply's from men that are totally not my type. If i do pay the fee then you get very basic messages only for it not to go any further or I might get a date and that is it you never hear from that man again. If you go to social groups very rarely is there a man i would date or who wold date me . I am nothing special so for the few single decent men the right height and age I way down the line with far too much competition The ratio of nice tall men in there 40s compared to women is very bad.

Look, someone has to say it. You need to be competitive in some aspect. You don't specify but I'm taking it that you're in your 40s yourself.

Can you compete with the 25 year olds on looks? It's unlikely.

But maybe you can bring some intellect, maturity and experience to the table. It appears that spelling and grammar may not be your best allies when giving an impression of yourself through the medium of the written word. I'm not judging or complaining for here. But if it's someone that you are trying to meet, they might care. Think of your message as being the equivalent of putting up a photo. Do you want to put up a photo where you're not looking your best?

If a hot 24 year old sent a message with those types of mistakes, a man might not care. If a 40 year old sent it, they might be more likely to ignore it

ToddyDoody

ydnas wrote: »

I need to have a bit of a rant,WERE in Dublin are all the half decent nice tall men in their 40s. I go on dating site and as soon as you want to send a message their looking for money but which one do I pay and then you get reply's from men that are totally not my type. If i do pay the fee then you get very basic messages only for it not to go any further or I might get a date and that is it you never hear from that man again. If you go to social groups very rarely is there a man i would date or who wold date me . I am nothing special so for the few single decent men the right height and age I way down the line with far too much competition The ratio of nice tall men in there 40s compared to women is very bad.

This reminds me of the fine but not necessarily handsome man in his 40s who'll claim you'll need to lower your standards, your demands are just not reasonable.

Chain Smoker

:rolleyes: