Please help (fathers rights)

Dannybyrnes198

I've been out of a relationship with my ex girlfriend for the last 6 months.were both 26 We have two young children together. She lives at home with her parents. Since day 1 of their birth I have not had alone time and they havnt spent anytime with the family on my side. Anytime I tried giving her money she won't take it.
When I'm in the house she is so strict and gives me no room to play or enjoy the only time I have with them. She pretty much sits there with a pissed off face and won't let me do much with them.

Since we broke up which was her decision. When I go over now things don't change and I can't deal with it anymore. She rarely ever replies to my messages asking what day I can come over to see them, and when she does reply it could be last minute and sometimes I made plans because she doesn't get back to me. And if I can't go over she makes it even worse for me.
She hates my mother for absolutely no reason. She makes me look bad in front of her parents for example she told me to stay in the kitchen while she went into the sitting room. 20mins later her dad said why is he in the kitchen and I could hear her saying I don't know.

When I got into an argument before she treatened that she would use the fact that I had depression against me. And last thing is I left €1500 in her house to put in a bank account. A week later when I asked for it she said her dad put it in the credit union. A year today I havnt got it back and I keep asking.

Please tell me what I should do regarding this situation. Should I take this to court and do I have rights. Would having depression make things worse. I just don't want to visit her house anymore.

lollsangel

Dannybyrnes198 wrote: »

I've been out of a relationship with my ex girlfriend for the last 6 months.were both 26 We have two young children together. She lives at home with her parents. Since day 1 of their birth I have not had alone time and they havnt spent anytime with the family on my side. Anytime I tried giving her money she won't take it.
When I'm in the house she is so strict and gives me no room to play or enjoy the only time I have with them. She pretty much sits there with a pissed off face and won't let me do much with them.

Since we broke up which was her decision. When I go over now things don't change and I can't deal with it anymore. She rarely ever replies to my messages asking what day I can come over to see them, and when she does reply it could be last minute and sometimes I made plans because she doesn't get back to me. And if I can't go over she makes it even worse for me.
She hates my mother for absolutely no reason. She makes me look bad in front of her parents for example she told me to stay in the kitchen while she went into the sitting room. 20mins later her dad said why is he in the kitchen and I could hear her saying I don't know.

When I got into an argument before she treatened that she would use the fact that I had depression against me. And last thing is I left €1500 in her house to put in a bank account. A week later when I asked for it she said her dad put it in the credit union. A year today I havnt got it back and I keep asking.

Please tell me what I should do regarding this situation. Should I take this to court and do I have rights. Would having depression make things worse. I just don't want to visit her house anymore.

I'd take her to court to sort out access and you to give support for the kids.I think you need some sort of mediation before the kids get too old and see the drama with mummy and daddy ad it's not good for them.
As for the 1500 maybe it has been lodged, maybe it's spent. You'll either eventually get it back but you won't be able to prove it. Better to just forget about

lollsangel

As for depression op once you are not a danger to yourself or the kids they should be no problem. Unfortunately the whole situation with you now will only make up feel more down but try keep the head up and analytically sort through the problem with your ex. Good luck

Dannybyrnes198

lollsangel wrote: »

As for depression op once you are not a danger to yourself or the kids they should be no problem. Unfortunately the whole situation with you now will only make up feel more down but try keep the head up and analytically sort through the problem with your ex. Good luck

Thank you appreciate it 😄