Advice Needed!

Clint212

Hi guys,

Im in a situation which is absolutely head wrecking, and after much thinking Ive decided to ask ye good people of anyone could give me your opinions. Basically Im a 32 year old guy, been in and out of not so serious relationships over the last few years. Over the last few months I was seeing a woman and for ages I felt things were going well, but since Christmas Ive had doubts, basically Im doing all the running to make things work etc.

A few weeks ago I went out with a few friends for a few drinks and met a girl whom I knew of but hadn't really met before. We had a great chat and a laugh, it was really refreshing, something I hadn't had with the girl I was seeing in a long time! she asked was I seeing anyone a the moment and I said I was so at the end of the night nothing else happened and we parted ways.

Its since ended with the girl I had been seeing, not because of that night, just because I could see it wasn't working. Just wondering should I take a chance with the new person and how do I let her know without feeling like a creep that Im now single,?

any advice greatly welcome, thanks guys!:)

Summer148

Just go for it , arrange coffee (or whatever) and go from there , casually bring in to conversation you and the misses ended and she will get the hint I'm sure, good luck 😊

whiskeyman

Deffo go for it!

Tigger99

"Hey, it was good to see you at x. Anyways at the time I was seeing someone but that ended since. I was wondering if you'd like to meet up for coffee?"

If a guy asked me for a coffee and last I heard he was in a relationship, I wouldn't meet him for coffee. So I think you'd be best making it clear from the start.

Lavinia

As a girl if a guy would meet me afterwards and first thing he says is that hes single I'd freak out a bit. But if he'd say he liked meeting me and invite me for a coffee & a chat and let me ask the question about gf or says that when it comes up in the conversation I think it would come down on me a bit better...

Clint212

Thanks for the advice guys, well first step is now taken anyway and she accepted so its onwards and upwards from here! Happy and healthy wishes to you all!:-)