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Next move?

  • 19-03-2016 06:26PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭


    Just looking for a bit of advice on what to do....

    Almost 2 months ago, met a guy on POF, chatted for a week or two before meeting for a coffee.....got on really well and he asked me out there and then for a 2nd date.....things carried on like this, meeting twice a week or more for dates....as the weeks went on I stayed at his and the first time I stayed over nothing happened.....I felt it was too soon at that stage....he said was I afraid he wouldn't text me if we slept together and I said no I'd hope he wasn't like that and he responded by saying he wouldn't do that to me, things carried on as normal....dates and texting everyday.

    Fast forward to this week.....went over to watch tv and hang out.....ended up sleeping together, which I was 100% happy to do......I left on Thursday afternoon, he said he'd call later. I thought nothing of the fact he didn't call Thursday as I was out with friends but all day Friday nothing....so I text him Friday evening, just like a hi, how are you kind of text....he hasn't been on whatsapp since wed and has not read the message but has been on POF.

    Im thinking of calling him and just finding out what's going on......but I dunno if I should....like maybe he just isn't interested and hasn't the heart to text me and tell me?


Comments

  • #2
    Merkin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,230 ✭✭✭Merkin


    You've texted and he hasn't responded so I'd sit it out for now. I'm not suggesting you sit pining by the phone but I'd resist the urge to call him for now as there could be a reasonable explanation.


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