"I'm just looking for a nice genuine guy - is there such a thing??"....

Under_Graduate

....."now excuse me whilst I post half naked pictures of myself on facebook in provocative positions.

Oh, and here's one of me on holidays, with two random guys, who plowed me for a week solid....

So - genuine nice guys - where art thou??".


This is why we refer to women as "contrary".

sentient_6

The bitterness is strong in this one.

Herb Powell

Are you trying for a shhitposting world record or something?

riffmongous

It may be time to lay off the reefer..

eviltwin

Someone didn't pull last night.

Alf Stewart.

eviltwin wrote: »

Someone didn't pull last night.

I bet he did.

Right off himself.

Sugar Free

Under_Graduate wrote: »

....."now excuse me whilst I post half naked pictures of myself on facebook is provocative positions.

Oh, and here's one of my on holidays, with two random guys, who plowed me for a week solid....

So - genuine nice guys - where art thou??".


This is why we refer to women as "contrary".

Who is 'we'?

Menas

Time to turn of the computer OP...and the lights.

Under_Graduate

Nuh.

I'm one of them guys doing the plowing.

Only, it always amazes me when I hear those lines, "just looking for a nice down to earth guy - do they even exist any more?".


**goes for the biggest alpha male douchebag in the place** (that's me)

Alf Stewart.

What is the act of "plowing someone" ?

Do I need to warm up me Zetor?

knucklehead6

So let me get this straight, the OP wants a genuine nice guy or the OP is a self processed genuine nice guy?

sunshine and showers

Under_Graduate wrote: »

....."now excuse me whilst I post half naked pictures of myself on facebook in provocative positions.

Oh, and here's one of me on holidays, with two random guys, who plowed me for a week solid....

So - genuine nice guys - where art thou??".


This is why we refer to women as "contrary".

There's a reason you're not getting the girl, buddy. It's all in this post.

Sam Kade

It's ploughing

Eircom_Sucks

sunshine and showers wrote: »

There's a reason you're not getting the girl, buddy. It's all in this post.

but he is actually right , even on pof or other sites their headline is mostly " not looking for hookups , genuine guys only "

i used to know 3 or 4 absolute beauts in my day , gorgeous chicks etc , but not all 4 and single with kids , and all ex's either drug dealers and locked up or abusive and hit then

women always want the badboy till he fooks them over like they always do

Marymoll

I closed my FB a few weeks ago due to seeing repeat, stupid , attention whores and their posts any time I logged on..... I feel a deja vu moment here 😦 all your missing is your gym posts and selfies ( then again.... The way you 'plow women' & smoke 'reefers' that may not happen )

johnnyskeleton

Under_Graduate wrote: »

**goes for the biggest alpha male douchebag in the place** (that's me)

The phrase "alpha male" is very much abused on the internet to imply, I suppose, a physically attractive male with poor social skills who is disliked something, as the word "douchebag" may connotate (douchebag is a discredited form of female higiene product, but anyway...).

The alpha male is a relative term and by definition refers to the leader of a collective group. So by definition an alpha male is someone who commands respect from all the other males in the group, either through love or fear.

Calling someone an alpha male douchebag is like saying the smartest idiot or the fastest plodder.

This is why people call men "inefficient users of technical language due to a failure to understand the tenants of social construcion theories at a practical level" on the internet.

Alf Stewart.

Sam Kade wrote: »

It's ploughing

That name again is Mr Plough.....

Collie D

As someone who would consider myself a "reasonably decent guy" rather than a "genuinely nice" one I admit I still enjoy a spot of "plowing".

OP, what are you suggesting here? Are the two mutually exclusive to each other?

machiavellianme

OPs focus is all wrong. Ploughing is just turning over sod. Any old donkey can do that.
Planting seed is the key activity here should he want to bare any fruit from his exploits.

Fleawuss

AH is struggling with this one. Not up for it at all.

seamus

Under_Graduate wrote: »

....."now excuse me whilst I post half naked pictures of myself on facebook in provocative positions.

Oh, and here's one of me on holidays, with two random guys, who plowed me for a week solid....

So - genuine nice guys - where art thou??".


This is why we refer to women as "contrary".

Women enjoy sex too.

In the same way that many men will enjoy a quick holiday fling with some gorgeous airhead, a woman is entitled to enjoy a holiday fling with some hunky meathead.

I don't see how wanting a nice guy as a boyfriend is in any way at odds with riding some idiot for a bit of a laugh.

Ben Gadot

Meh is simply my answer. Don't take one woman's hypocrisy and apply it to all women. You'll find life a whole lot easier that way.

Ave Sodalis

Majority of those who profess to be nice guys can be divided into two categories:

1) is only nice to the girl in order to "woo" her but is actually still a prick.

2) has no backbone and practically grovels. This "nice guy" cannot generally say no, nor stand up for himself.

old_aussie

Alf Stewart. wrote: »

That name again is Mr Plough.....

Alf Stewart.

old_aussie wrote: »

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Site won't let me post links for some unknown reason, but that's exactly what I had in mind mate.

Bulbous Salutation

I'm a dickhead and have no luck with women. Explain that OP.

Day Lewin

There are masses of nice genuine guys: I meet them all the time. They often don't bother doing what girls expect of them, though.
There are SOME nice, sincere, genuine girls: though they have a terrible habit of caring what other people think of them, and trying to conform to some mythical standard of perfection, in order to be approved of.

But if the former and the latter struggle past their hangups, they meet each other and recognise each other and all turns out well and the story has a happy ending!!!!

The Backwards Man

Most people don't like being called contrary for some reason or other OP. Doesn't bother me like, but most people don't.

zl1whqvjs75cdy

We're all dickheads. Same as all women are gold digging bitches. Sorry.

QuietMan2010

johnnyskeleton wrote: »

The phrase "alpha male" is very much abused on the internet to imply, I suppose, a physically attractive male with poor social skills who is disliked something, as the word "douchebag" may connotate (douchebag is a discredited form of female higiene product, but anyway...).

The alpha male is a relative term and by definition refers to the leader of a collective group. So by definition an alpha male is someone who commands respect from all the other males in the group, either through love or fear.

Calling someone an alpha male douchebag is like saying the smartest idiot or the fastest plodder.

This is why people call men "inefficient users of technical language due to a failure to understand the tenants of social construcion theories at a practical level" on the internet.

This is why people call men "inefficient users of technical language due to a failure to understand the tenants of social construcion theories at a practical level" on the internet.

Love it! Even if it was deliberate, or a typo, that's still hilarious!

* it's tenets, not tenants

Eric Marley

Under_Graduate wrote: »

....."now excuse me whilst I post half naked pictures of myself on facebook in provocative positions.

Oh, and here's one of me on holidays, with two random guys, who plowed me for a week solid....

So - genuine nice guys - where art thou??".


I wish such guys existed dear, Unfortunately they faced some sort of extinction

Whispered

I know loads of genuinely nice guys. They're not some mythical creature, most people are pretty decent.

Captain Chaos

katemarch wrote: »

There are masses of nice genuine guys: I meet them all the time. They often don't bother doing what girls expect of them, though.!

This sums it up exactly. Loads of women out there say they want nice guys yet when they get them they get bored quickly and go back to the typical "asshole" type that tend to not treat them as well but they get more entertained.

jeamimus

Have i wandered into socal?

ancapailldorcha

As the OP is currently serving a ban, I am closing this thread.