Mixed signals? I'm confused.

vandamiss

So, I met this guy while on vacation in another country for 4 days. We stayed on the same house with our family and friends and haven't been talking much, but he keeps looking in my direction, throwing glances here and there. Even if I'm not looking his way, I feel that he's looking at me which made me really conscious around him. He doesn't talk to me when people are around us but has ALWAYS initiated a small talk when we're just alone. I have come to notice him when he assisted me get a glass of water and when he initiated to help me learn how to ice skate though I already have somebody assisting me skate. He was playing hockey with the guys that time and maybe, just maybe he saw me struggling and heard me screaming when I'm about to fall so he decided to offer his help? It's just so weird because we haven't been talking before that. I did fall a bit and he caught me. After that, he had learned that I lost something and was asking if I found this thing I lost. He sounds to be really trying to help me. When I bid him goodbye yesterday and I was about to grab my bag, he attentively handed it to me. Hmm, now that I think about it, I really find him cute and now wondering how do I ever see him again or contact him or maybe atleast become friends? I can say that we were uncomfortable around each other while our relatives and friends were around so maybe we haven't got the chance to really talk? But whenever he gets the chance, he breaks the ice between us. What's even puzzling me is that all of the people I just met (they all come from the same country, I was a visitor) there made an effort to actually talk to me around everyone but him, he hadn't done that in front of the others but speaks to me when we're alone. Weird. I really think that he doesn't like me at ALL. But anyways, I came across his profile in FB while adding the people I met there and so I decided to send him a request but he hasn't approved it yet.

Any thoughts? Or am I am just reading too much into this?
Thanks a lot.

Lucyfur

Hi OP,

I've moved your thread to Personal Issues. Please read their charter before posting.

Lucy

vandamiss

Lucyfur wrote: »

Hi OP,

I've moved your thread to Personal Issues. Please read their charter before posting.

Lucy

Hello,

Sorry to have posted in the wrong thread. Still a newbie here. Thanks

Lucyfur

No problem! Best of luck

CaraMay

Does he live in a different country to you? Can I ask your ages? Do any of your family have contact details for him

vandamiss

CaraMay wrote: »

Does he live in a different country to you? Can I ask your ages? Do any of your family have contact details for him

Yes, he's actually from Sweden, I'm from France. Yes sure, I am 25, he's 35 and no, unfortunately... But we have mutual friends in Facebook to whom some of my family members are close to.

CaraMay

Ok if it were me I would leave it. Nothing really happened and that, combined with the distance would make it a non runner for me (I've done a few ldr and just think they are a waste of time and money).

vandamiss

CaraMay wrote: »

Ok if it were me I would leave it. Nothing really happened and that, combined with the distance would make it a non runner for me (I've done a few ldr and just think they are a waste of time and money).

Aww too bad... Trying hard not to think about it much but I really found him endearing. Thanks for your input though.