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Bad kisser?

  • 22-02-2016 2:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I'm seeing a guy who is a bad kisser.
    Might it just seems like he's a bad kisser because we don't click, or do we not click because he's a bad kisser?
    Is there anyway to remedy this? Practice maybe?!
    Is it possible to bring it up without offending him?
    He says he's not experienced with women. He is shy generally.
    We get on fine besides.
    I haven't had this issue before.


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  • #2
    Tilly
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,987 ✭✭✭Tilly


    Show him how you like to kiss and ask him if he likes it and can he kiss you that way if he does.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks.
    Hopefully that will do the trick.


  • #4
    racso1975
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,273 ✭✭✭racso1975


    Bad Kisser? wrote: »
    I'm seeing a guy who is a bad kisser.
    Might it just seems like he's a bad kisser because we don't click, or do we not click because he's a bad kisser?
    Is there anyway to remedy this? Practice maybe?!
    Is it possible to bring it up without offending him?
    He says he's not experienced with women. He is shy generally.
    We get on fine besides.
    I haven't had this issue before.

    This is a serious deal breaker for me. If it was a snog of somebody i just met i would just make my excuses.

    If you know the person well/like them then talk to them. Nothing to be offended by. Same would happen with sex you need to be able to verbalise want you want and dont want.


  • #5
    SarahMollie
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,841 ✭✭✭SarahMollie


    Without TMI, can you elaborate on "bad kisser"?

    Like, is it really sloppy and gross, or too timid and boring?

    If you think he's worth the hassle, he can probably be trained into your way of doing things. Maybe tell him what you'd like in a flirty way, like saying "I really like it when you do when we kiss like this" and then leading the kissing the way you want it.


  • #6
    Calypso Realm
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 416 ✭✭Calypso Realm


    How (physically) attracted to him are you? You mention you don't click. In my experience the 'quality' of kissing makes little or no difference with high attraction levels-unless, of course it's truly on the off the scale abysmal side! Since kissing is a form of foreplay it is important to get it right, though.


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  • #7
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks for all the replies.
    Bit of a chat and some hands on coaching have provided much help.
    Btw-there were things I could improve on too!


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