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Gay guy experimenting?

  • 27-01-2016 5:47pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
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    Hi all,

    this might be a bit of a strange one...

    Basically, I'm a gay guy, have no interest in ever having a relationship with a woman nor do I notice good looking girls/women. However, I've noticed recently that I've been watching hetero pornography and apart of me finds myself fantasizing about women sexually. I don't know if I should experiment and nor do I know HOW I would... I wouldn't want to go out, get drunk and get with a random girl.. I'd nearly want to be with a couple and be shown by the guy what to do or something.. It's a random fantasy but I don't know how to explore it further. Obviously, the internet would be the place but I don't really know if I should in the first place.

    It's made me question my sexuality a bit but it doesn't really bother me! If I'm a bit bi then so be it!!

    Thanks
    Confused


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  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Curious_Guy wrote: »
    Basically, I'm a gay guy, have no interest in ever having a relationship with a woman nor do I notice good looking girls/women. However, I've noticed recently that I've been watching hetero pornography and apart of me finds myself fantasizing about women sexually. I don't know if I should experiment and nor do I know HOW I would... I wouldn't want to go out, get drunk and get with a random girl.. I'd nearly want to be with a couple and be shown by the guy what to do or something.. It's a random fantasy but I don't know how to explore it further. Obviously, the internet would be the place but I don't really know if I should in the first place.

    I don't really see the issue here? I'm sure there are straight guys that have equally fantasied about experimenting with another man sexually. For some of them it remains a fantasy and other go out and act on it.

    If your asking where to meet women, then welcome to nearly every straight guys world! The internet would give you a wider choice than hitting a random club and allow you to be more straight up in what you are looking for and where you are coming from.

    If you should or not is entirely down to you. As long as everyone is adult and consenting there is no issue. I think to be fair to any potential partner you should be clear as to the fact you are not looking for any commitment to avoid any misunderstanding but other than that go for it. Just remember not all fantasies are as good in reality (then again some are even better!). Be safe, be responsible and be open. Then enjoy.


  • #3
    kjl
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    I think you need to see if this is a fantasy or real feelings.

    I'm the exact opposite, I identify as straight, but have watched some gay porn in my time. I do get off on it and have thought a few times of hooking up with a guy, but I have never met a guy I was attracted to. I think I just get off on the sexual vibe and not the emotional one.

    I think I would feel weird if I did hook up with a guy and it would probably be something I would have to forget about.


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