Need advice

Asmooh

Hi, I know most people know me from the car section but there is more.

My girlfriend is being haunted or at least stalked by entities / ghost. She things someone else sends them.

Few days ago in Holland in my old home she had a lot of issues with them when we went to sleep.

Today (just now) when we went to sleep she noticed again and told me they are following her. I downloaded an app, not because I trust an app but because I was wondering if it can detect anything unusual. My girlfriend did not see where something was detected and no sound only me could see it.

She started crying when the 'dot' was so close that it would almost be inside you. She had pain In her stomach and was really crying saying that they are taking our baby ("we are not sure she is pregnant yet but based on her girly things it should be around 2 months) and the dots went out our circle and back in like someone we actually attacking her and taking something from her.

For now she Is calmed down a bit but the two 'dots' are not getting close anymore since that happened. Like they took what they need and just observing now.

This ghost thing is happening for years now everywhere she goes or is. I believe her because this is not the first time, I had a gf years ago which was way worse.


Anyway what can we do, how can we make sure that we can keep our unborn child (if she was pregnant) without losing it. My girlfriend has lost so many and also kids because of stress or other 'unknown' reasons and I Really need to protect her.

I cannot fight what I cannot see, even if I feel it sometimes.


Help?

P.s. The app I downloaded is 'ghost detector pro' on Android

degrassinoel

Asmooh wrote: »

Hi, I know most people know me from the car section but there is more.

My girlfriend is being haunted or at least stalked by entities / ghost. She things someone else sends them.

Few days ago in Holland in my old home she had a lot of issues with them when we went to sleep.

Today (just now) when we went to sleep she noticed again and told me they are following her. I downloaded an app, not because I trust an app but because I was wondering if it can detect anything unusual. My girlfriend did not see where something was detected and no sound only me could see it.

She started crying when the 'dot' was so close that it would almost be inside you. She had pain In her stomach and was really crying saying that they are taking our baby ("we are not sure she is pregnant yet but based on her girly things it should be around 2 months) and the dots went out our circle and back in like someone we actually attacking her and taking something from her.

For now she Is calmed down a bit but the two 'dots' are not getting close anymore since that happened. Like they took what they need and just observing now.

This ghost thing is happening for years now everywhere she goes or is. I believe her because this is not the first time, I had a gf years ago which was way worse.


Anyway what can we do, how can we make sure that we can keep our unborn child (if she was pregnant) without losing it. My girlfriend has lost so many and also kids because of stress or other 'unknown' reasons and I Really need to protect her.

I cannot fight what I cannot see, even if I feel it sometimes.


Help?

P.s. The app I downloaded is 'ghost detector pro' on Android

If you're worried about your girlfriends pregnancy, you should buy a few books on the subject and you should both see your GP or obstetrician for advice.

Sorry, if this sounds cynical - but i really don't understand what you mean by a "dot" and then "two dots"...

Second Toughest in_the Freshers

I presume the 'dots' are on the app? delete it, its for 'entertainment purposes' only, ie. bullshít
(and it seems to be worrying both yourself and the girlfriend, which can't be good)

were ye partaking in any of the local customs while in amsterdam?

Asmooh

Second Toughest in_the Freshers wrote: »

I presume the 'dots' are on the app? delete it, its for 'entertainment purposes' only, ie. bullshít
(and it seems to be worrying both yourself and the girlfriend, which can't be good)

were ye partaking in any of the local customs while in amsterdam?

Well I know those apps are for entertainment but as I said the weird thing is that things were happening with my girlfriend when those dots were inside the inner circle and my girlfriend didn't see the app or when that was.


Also my girlfriend had this way more often over years and I haven't been in Amsterdam since 2002 or so..

Asmooh

degrassinoel wrote: »

If you're worried about your girlfriends pregnancy, you should buy a few books on the subject and you should both see your GP or obstetrician for advice.

Sorry, if this sounds cynical - but i really don't understand what you mean by a "dot" and then "two dots"...

The app mentioned in the topic measures if something else is close based on electro magnetic field. Sometimes there were two dots and sometime there was only one.

The most inner circle is where you are

looksee

The common denominator in girlfriends being haunted seems to be you?

Oryx

The first thing to do is confirm your girlfriend's pregnancy. I cant understand why you haven't yet. Her cycle could just be unreliable. Did she have actual miscarriages before? Its not clear from your post.

Delete the app. Its just adding to your fear, and that is your enemy here, not any entities. You both need to stop being afraid. You have the power to stop this happening. Both of you. You are actually making your girlfriend worse by your actions. Instead of empowering her that she is safe and will not be harmed (she won't) you are adding to her worry with your own fears and silly apps that are coincidental only.

The things she is feeling cannot hurt her. But fear can. When she realises she is stronger than what's happening and quite literally tells it to naff off and not bother her, releasing the fear, it will stop.

Asmooh

Oryx wrote: »

The first thing to do is confirm your girlfriend's pregnancy. I cant understand why you haven't yet. Her cycle could just be unreliable. Did she have actual miscarriages before? Its not clear from your post.

Delete the app. Its just adding to your fear, and that is your enemy here, not any entities. You both need to stop being afraid. You have the power to stop this happening. Both of you. You are actually making your girlfriend worse by your actions. Instead of empowering her that she is safe and will not be harmed (she won't) you are adding to her worry with your own fears and silly apps that are coincidental only.

The things she is feeling cannot hurt her. But fear can. When she realises she is stronger than what's happening and quite literally tells it to naff off and not bother her, releasing the fear, it will stop.

We actually never used this before but the ghost things happening for years now.

And yes had miscarriage few times in the past

I always supported her in anything and I always helped her that she won't be harmed but last Saturday it seemed like something wanted to take over her body. She also sees things that I can't see which doesn't make it easier.

Over the years many things happened to her not only paranormal

Oryx

Were her miscarriages confirmed? Im not trying to dismiss a tragic thing, just shedding light on whats happening.

Asmooh

Oryx wrote: »

Were her miscarriages confirmed? Im not trying to dismiss a tragic thing, just shedding light on whats happening.

Yes, but they kept telling it's stress. About a few months ago she didn't wake up anymore even when you are standing next to her saying her name and trying to wake up. Sometimes her body just shut down out of nothing and no feeling in arms or legs and the doctors kept saying it's stess.


If someone doesn't wake up anymore or that you are afraid that she will stop breathing every single time she doesn't wake up directly it's hard. Sometimes it took me a half hour to get her to wake up. But that is apart from the paranormal part.

Oryx

Maybe it is stress. You sound stressed too.

I am going to say this again and trust me more than that app: ghosts and entities will not hurt her. Her own fear will.

Asmooh

Oryx wrote: »

Maybe it is stress. You sound stressed too.

I am going to say this again and trust me more than that app: ghosts and entities will not hurt her. Her own fear will.

I totally understand, but the part were they actually hurt her did happen many times also when I am not around and that is the part I am afraid of, I cannot be 24/7 at her side to protect her.

Oryx

Asmooh wrote: »

I totally understand, but the part were they actually hurt her did happen many times also when I am not around and that is the part I am afraid of, I cannot be 24/7 at her side to protect her.

How was she hurt?

Asmooh

Oryx wrote: »

How was she hurt?

She told me that at her parents home she was push down the stairs, many things has happened to her, even things you cannot explain at all.

Her parents never believed her, until something happened on holiday few years ago that even her parents could not explain and left the house they rented without hesitation.

She also feels that someone make cuts in her body with a knife or that something is having its hand on her throat.

edward2222

I didn't experienced this but I have friends who does.
This kind of thing really needs some spiritual meditation.
I think you should have a blessing for your house, then try to hire a paranormal expert
to make contact with them.

Dont forget to pray everyday.

mahoganygas

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Asmooh

Got an update from my gf, im at work and she didnt reply for a while.

She was awake but those entities almost took her, she fell with her head at the table and was laying in the kitchen for half a hour and with a lot of effort she found a way to get back in bed.

I did ring all my devices at home just to see if she wakes up

This is not the first time something happened and laying in the kitchen for some time

Oryx

Your girlfriend needs to see a doctor.

Asmooh

Oryx wrote: »

Your girlfriend needs to see a doctor.

She did, and they said "its stress" they did scans, blood tests.. kept saying stress

Oryx

Asmooh wrote: »

She did, and they said "its stress" they did scans, blood tests.. kept saying stress

You may need to consider that they are right. Regardless of what the cause is, neither you nor your girlfriend are approaching this the right way. You are actually creating more stress in her life, rather than alleviating it, by investigating with apps which are for entertainment purposes only.

If your girlfriend is having fainting spells and episodes of paralysis, then she absolutely needs to see a doctor again. She needs to attempt to treat the supposed stress to see if maybe it helps. The more she thinks about these episodes and fears them, the worse they will get. She needs grounding, she needs to calm her mind, she needs to know she is safe. Perhaps she can find that peace and safety in spiritual things and meditation, but I would worry that that could be counterproductive if done in the wrong way or with the wrong people. But first and foremost she needs to exclude the possibility that there is an actual medical cause at work here.

Im not trying to be unsympathetic, and I certainly do believe you in what you say here, but I have been through scary stuff in the past, and the advice I give is based on my own experience. Deal with this in a practical, real world way.

Asmooh

Remember what I posted yesterday? now she has some kind of bite marks exactly where it hurt yesterday

Riamfada

This is certainly an issue you should be persuing with a medical professional. Those apps are purely for entertainment only. It could be coincidental that any issues your girlfriend is having and the behaviour of the app matched. I would delete it and seek medical help and spiritual help if you are that way inclined. This forum is certainly not the place for medical, psychological or religious direction. That is the most help you will get here because no one here is equipped to provide you with either nor is it allowed. Wish you all the best.

dellas1979

I find your post a little distressing (and I know you are a non-native speaker, but its a little hard to read).

She 100% needs to explore regular therapies, i.e., medical professional, talking to someone/councellor first. Every normal "ailment" needs to be excluded first.

But, and am outing myself a little here to offer some advice (am just a regular joe soap poster, regular person, job, bills, don't indulge in anything paranormal), I myself have had to go seek alternative "therapies" to sort out something's that I cant/couldn't explain.

What works for me (clearing energy) is burning sage. I will hold the sage and move it up and down my body. Inhale/exhale. And think good thoughts. Concentrating on parts that energy needs to be removed. I've also learned the "blue light". I could be anywhere. In bed, in the shower, anywhere really, and if I feel anything, I will imagine/visualise a beautiful blue light coming from my head, and it will surround me. It is protection.

They are harmless to try (but, at least, Ive found effective for me).

Ziycon

Just to back up what everyone else is saying the way you are both approaching this situation is very wrong, you both need to approach it from a medical perspective first and foremost, I would suggest maybe getting a second opinion from another doctor or hospital as there could be some underlying medical issues that your unaware of causing the issues you described due to fainting whether it being from deficiency of something or something more serious, there and loads of medical conditions that can explain the majority if not all of the things you say your girlfriend has experienced.

Delete the app on your phone as it's for entertainment only, nothing more, go to the doctor or hospital and get a second or third opinion but a lot of what you described can be caused by stress.

Myrddin

Riamfada wrote: »

This is certainly an issue you should be persuing with a medical professional. Those apps are purely for entertainment only. It could be coincidental that any issues your girlfriend is having and the behaviour of the app matched. I would delete it and seek medical help and spiritual help if you are that way inclined. This forum is certainly not the place for medical, psychological or religious direction. That is the most help you will get here because no one here is equipped to provide you with either nor is it allowed. Wish you all the best.

The above sums things up quite well op, I'm afraid this forum simply isn't equipped to handle the issues you raise. There's some good advice in this thread from those who contributed, but that's where our usefulness to you shall end.

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